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    Boristheblade Posts: 141, Reputation: 17
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    #1381

    Jul 31, 2008, 01:41 PM
    Hmmm it was my ex's 21st yesterday, very hard knowing that we had planned to be together that day, but I didn't wish him happy birthday so I'm proud I resisted that urge. Still... difficult day.
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    #1382

    Jul 31, 2008, 02:08 PM
    So after two weeks of being single, I've got a date for tonight. Oh yeah.
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    #1383

    Aug 1, 2008, 06:36 PM
    After being single for 6 months and finally got over my ex.. I bump into her on a night out.. she tells me she still loves me.. I end up sleeping with her and then regret it all the next day.. WHAT A GREAT LIFE...

    I've had a few drinks tonight, sorry.
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    #1384

    Aug 2, 2008, 05:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by DazT
    After being single for 6 months and finally got over my ex.. I bump into her on a night out.. she tells me she still loves me.. I end up sleeping with her and then regret it all the next day.. WHAT A GREAT LIFE...

    I've had a few drinks tonight, sorry.
    :( Eeeek. Sorry, dude. Generally speaking, sleeping with the ex is a big no-no. (Don't I know it... ) Well, have you talked to her since?
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    #1385

    Aug 2, 2008, 08:24 PM
    2 months after break up..

    I've been working out more often... pushing my muscles until they are so sore I can't lift any more weights..

    I've been talking to advanced schooling program and I am 100% looking at it.

    Anyways, I called my ex-gf's mom the day after the earthquake struck Los Angeles and all the way to parts of San Diego & Las Vegas.. we talked for a bit and she asked me for my sisters' phone which I gave out. But, the mom did say that my ex rarely talks and hangs out with some friends which was it. Her mom also said that my ex has not been dating anyone else; she questions me if I have been dating other girls or if I had a new girlfriend and I told her I have no time for a girlfriend right now.

    I also told her that I'm going to be working out and study for a whole year.. When I finish schooling, I'll join the Army next summer and go through training. Then I'll go back to college and study while work.. by then, I'll graduate with a degree and earning money while my ex is wondering for a job.

    That's pretty much my whole life after I got banned... LoL
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    #1386

    Aug 2, 2008, 11:53 PM
    I'm for sure getting a motorcycle and can't wait to blow by my ex's house. Hells yeah
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    #1387

    Aug 3, 2008, 12:03 AM
    Andrew916:

    ... definitely with you. With the money I had saved for getting a condo to live together with my ex...

    ... I bought a gsx-r 750.

    ... then I sold it, to buy a business, but... ya get my drift.

    Hold on to your hats. The cbr rr 1000... repsol..

    It's coming.
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    #1388

    Aug 3, 2008, 12:30 AM
    Yeah man I'm thinking of getting either a ducati or a kawasaki Ninja ZX-14 supersport. That sh*t is race track ready. Can't wait to see her face when tear I down her street. She said I was a bit too "tame". Hahaha thinking back on it, I'm laughing
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    #1389

    Aug 3, 2008, 12:35 AM
    Ah. Well... I didn't get it to show her off... I just always wanted a bike... but saved up the money instead for y'know... domestication. Good luck with the zx... thing's a beast.
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    #1390

    Aug 3, 2008, 01:43 AM
    Exactly haha
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    #1391

    Aug 3, 2008, 07:06 AM
    Sneezy - you liked the bike? I bought an enduro at the beginning of the summer for the trails, but I'm thinking I want to sell it and look into a gsx-r for the 3 hour ride to school and back. Might save a bit on gas :)
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    #1392

    Aug 3, 2008, 07:42 AM
    Its funny - been about 3 months now, but it seems like forever. Haven't had any contact with her and the bad days pretty much don't exist anymore. There are moments, and more recently more than ever before, but it isn't as bad as it used to be... believe that.

    Just recently found myself getting caught up on the situations my mind is creating again, so all those who are going through that now, just learn to deal with it and learn how to understand that they are just things your mind has made up - don't over react or get upset about them since there is no basis behind them and you have no idea if they are true or not. For me, they tend to stick around and keep happening, which is a little bit annoying. I have the images of her being a "slut" (for lack of a better word) and that hurts to think about... just have to keep telling myself that there is no reason to believe that, other than the fact that my mind is going for worst case scenario...
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    #1393

    Aug 3, 2008, 10:03 AM
    Liked the bike?. I almost cried when I had to sell that sucker.. . I didn't even cry when my dog died when I was little.

    As far as... buying the bike to save gas... yeah... granted, the gas mileage is about as twice as much as a regular car... don't be too down if you find yourself filling up as much as you do with a car. Just based on how I rode the sucker... I was getting anywhere from... 30 - 50 mpg.
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    #1394

    Aug 3, 2008, 11:06 AM
    You have got to be kidding me... I'm on vacation down in newport and guess who I run into?- my ex...
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    #1395

    Aug 3, 2008, 01:43 PM
    Well my car doesn't get great gas milege - 21ish if I'm lucky on the highway. I'm looking into it, thinking it just might be a fun toy :)

    Andrew - Did you say anything to her, or just saw her? What happened?
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    #1396

    Aug 3, 2008, 01:45 PM
    My car gets around the same... considering the way I drive.

    It is a fun toy.. . mm...
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    #1397

    Aug 3, 2008, 07:34 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by bigbird213
    Well my car doesn't get great gas milege - 21ish if im lucky on the highway. I'm looking into it, thinking it just might be a fun toy :)

    Andrew - Did you say anything to her, or just saw her?? What happened?
    I didn't say anything, I just made sure she saw me having fun and laughing with my friend veronica who I'm seriously considering a relationship with. I really wanted the chance to show sam that I'm over her and I have to say that this was quite an opportunity. It was just weird and unbelievable seeing her here. It's a small world isn't it?
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    #1398

    Aug 3, 2008, 07:49 PM
    Well it sounds like your handling it well and not really having any trouble with it. That's good, I think you did well with it and didn't cause any problems which didn't need to be caused. I would caution you from doing anything in spite as it might come back to bite you, but at the same time, you were having fun and that's all that matters. Keep yourself busy, keep having fun - you'll be fine :)
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    #1399

    Aug 3, 2008, 08:26 PM
    Besides recovering from my ex..

    I've been working out about 45mins to one hour/per day (I try to). I did call up my ex's mother to notify that there was an earthquake... just for sake of it =/

    Anyways, I'm going to technical school on Aug. 25th and ends 06/29/09..

    oh boy~ it's going to go through my ex' b-day, my b-day, lose-v-car day etc.
    it's going to be painstaking~

    As for getting a car, my mom is being a 8itch about it...
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    #1400

    Aug 4, 2008, 08:36 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jiltedgirl
    :( Eeeek. Sorry, dude. Generally speaking, sleeping with the ex is a big no-no. (Don't I know it...) Well, have you talked to her since?
    She text me first thing in the morning after that night (it was Wednesday night).. she told me she regretted nothing and that she meant everything she said on Wednesday night. But since Thursday.. she has made no effort to talk to me or make any contact so at the minute we haven't talked since Thursday. BUT, she had a casual boyfriend on Wednesday night and I've been told since that they have broken up.

    She's back in my head again after I thought I had gotten over her.. *sigh*.

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