[sweetface]

Millie,

He was not forthcoming with the truth, I had to confront him about it. And he lied, but then when I started giving him facts, he came clean about the cheating. He started going to counseling(I know because I set the sessions) But he is still having conversations with this woman and I know about it for a fact(once again not being able to trust him). I asked him to sever all ties with this woman, but he has not. And he continues to lie. So at this point you are right, and so is everyone else who has provided me with an answer. It is best that I move on with my life

[milliec]

GOOD!
And remember the 1st step is the most difficult one
Do it without regrets!
And if you go through a difficult time, don't remember only the good things about this relationship, but the bad times too, and WHY you gave it up!
About his counselling:
1.it's nothing for you now, stop taking care of him and his needs
2. one can go to a counsellor and "pass time" - remember? It was you who set the meetings! He seems not to give it a damn!
3. many guys are hurt in such a situation, but it's their pride only: it was you who put an end to it!

Be strong and take good care of yourself

And write if you need
Millie

[sweetface]

Yes!! I seem to always take care of him and what he needs! I have always thought of him first, and not myself. But to be perfectly honest with you, I have always been that type of person to want to "take care" of everybody, and not myself. I give him my last, because I am thinking of him first. But again I do this with everyone, not just him.

[milliec]

Right! So this is the time you change things around and start taking care of yourself, first thing!
Millie