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    Aug 12, 2007, 09:50 AM
    What are your dating standards
    Dear everyone,

    I am just curious to see what does everyone look for from the other person.

    What attracts and what are the turn-offs?

    Everyone has some preference and standards, although things might not work the way we expect. Right?

    Thanks for sharing.:)
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    Aug 12, 2007, 03:49 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by nicespringgirl
    Dear everyone,

    I am just curious to see what does everyone look for from the other person.

    I like Asian women who can cook. They must be smart and outgoing, fun, and hard working. Also a knack for investing wouldn't hurt.
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    Aug 12, 2007, 04:31 PM
    I like a women who cooks for me, cleans, feeds me and generally does everything for me. Is a slave. Like how a women should whilst the man goes to work. O and also she was miss playboy of the year!

    O dreams... o dreams...

    In reality I would like an attractive women, who likes to try new things, is outgoing, sporty or willing to try, who's up for a laff and Chuff's comment for investing. That would be nice. Maybe has a few thousand just splattered about in various stocks and shares.
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    Aug 12, 2007, 04:40 PM
    Female, human, alive. Best two out of three.
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    Aug 12, 2007, 06:15 PM
    Attractions? Sense of humor (not sarcastic but can be dry), keeps up with current events, would rather sit in on a Friday night with popcorn and film noir, shares responsibilities, and being a moderate conservative would be nice.

    Turn offs? Someone who moves too fast, control seeking, and being a smoker.

    Looks and money do not factor in so much but he should work. I work, so why not him? Lol
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    Aug 12, 2007, 06:28 PM
    I like someone funny, intelligent, good hearted, close to their family, well educated, old fashioned gentleman, laid back

    Turn offs: smoking, aggression, controlling, jumps in too fast, commitment-phobes
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    Aug 12, 2007, 07:01 PM
    The Lady of my dreams has to add to my life as I would add to hers. Have an open mind to the future as no one knows what it will bring. She has to enjoy herself and life every day. I get up every morning looking forward to a new and exciting day and my lady has to be able to do the same. She has to be able to put the past in the past so she can enjoy the future as I do.

    Looks is not a problem big or small I Love them all, to me its what's inside that counts.

    Dennis777
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    Aug 12, 2007, 07:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by chuff
    I like Asian women who can cook. They must be smart and outgoing, fun, and hard working. Also a knack for investing wouldn't hurt.
    Same as Chuff!:cool:
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    Aug 12, 2007, 09:24 PM
    I'm going on a date with my dream girl now, cuddling on the couch and watch some TV. Don't wait up.
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    Aug 13, 2007, 10:31 AM
    I like someone who do something for me once in while. A person I can trust without ever worrying about getting cheated on. Some one who can make me laugh as I would like to make them laugh. Believes in God and respectful.

    Turn offs- High maintenance, selfish, materialistic, controlling, bosey, a user and think they know it all woman... Funny, this sounds just like my ex fiancé?
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    Aug 13, 2007, 10:52 AM
    Turn Ons: Blonde hair, blue eyes (sorry that's the materialistic side of me), great sense of humor, intelligent, health conscious, generous, affectionate, respectful, good job, likes kids, I could go on and on.

    Turn Offs: Attention seeking, conceited, controlling, drugs, materialistic (can be good to a certain point, cheater. Oh yeah, did I mention attention seeking and conceited? Those are two of my least favorite attributes.
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    Aug 13, 2007, 10:55 AM
    Hmmmm... I love a great personality... that's pretty much 95% of what I judge a man on...
    I have a guy who is cocky and rude..
    I love a guy with some-what long hair BUT I hate when it's greasy...
    I love when a guy is willing to put you before stupid thing (like smoking) BUT I hate when they quit and expect something in return...
    I guess I just love the Prince Charming idea... even if I have to kiss the ugly toad to get there.:)
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    Aug 13, 2007, 01:56 PM
    In collge:
    Kind,patient, have a minimum 3.8 GPA with a useful degree, at least one leadership and one job during school, independent(pay off school on his own),healthy (didn't see one like that) :D

    Start working in real world:
    Mature,Intelligent, Ambitious,generous,knowledgeable, well educated, have solid morals,healthy,honest, enjoy a deep conversation with each other,clean (haven't shown up yet) :D

    Appearnce,age,height,sense of humor is not important.

    I know I'll make him laugh, as long as he knows how to laugh.:D
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    Aug 13, 2007, 02:05 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Canada_Sweety
    Hmmmm... I love a great personality... that's pretty much 95% of what I judge a man on...
    I have a guy who is cocky and rude..
    I love a guy with some-what long hair BUT I hate when it's greasy...
    I love when a guy is willing to put you before stupid thing (like smoking) BUT I hate when they quit and expect something in return...
    I guess I just love the Prince Charming idea... even if I have to kiss the ugly toad to get there.:)
    U got to be kidding me, hun!:eek:
    Someone who is rude and cocky? :confused: :eek:
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    Aug 13, 2007, 02:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by nicespringgirl
    minimum 3.8 GPA
    I have to wonder why this is so important. You see, when you get a job most places don't care what your GPA was, only that you graduated and from where. Many people are extremely smart, yet are not good test takers. This lowers the GPA, although if the grading system were different, or the tests were different, the GPA of a 2.0 student could easily be a 4.0.

    Sorry, my psych major is coming out.;)
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    Aug 13, 2007, 04:28 PM
    He either works hard or smart so he can make a high GPA.
    Either way is good for me.
    It was before, now I lowered it to GPA 3.5 :D

    And what's up with your "blonde" requirement? Dark hair is cool too!:P Many dark hair men are attractive look at Keanu Reeves!;)
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    Aug 14, 2007, 08:47 PM
    Atrractive to me, cute is OK, humble, faithful, good sense humor, heterosexual, believer in God, no bad habits, such as drug abuse, reasonably sane, non-argumentative, easy-going, happy disposition, positive mental attitude, considerate, not materialistic, honest, truthful, trustworthy, sincere, team worker, respectful of husband headship, cuddly, a
    Preciative of life's simple things, especially those which can't be bought with money,
    Understandng, cooperative, single or divorced, nonsmoker, age is of secondary importance, and reasonable down to earth expectations non violent.

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