What to do or think about my ex

narolis · Apr 13, 2008, 07:56 PM

First please read my first post I lost my love who was also my best friend

I seen her last week. She was doing an activity for school with her group and she invited friends and me. So I went of course (I would do anything for her), but surprise when I arrived I was the only one who came. So I was alone with her and her group, that don’t know me and I don’t know if they know our story. It was the first time since she left that we were together with no one else.

I wish I could have been enabled to have a real good conversation with her and make her laugh like we used to. All that time I was there next to her, she was so beautiful, I wanted to take her in my arms but I couldn’t so I didn’t :(
I was with my car so I propose her to take her home, she was taking the bus, but she didn’t want I don’t know for exact what reason, but I would have love to.

I haven’t talk to her since then. I wonder if it was a good things that I was there with her. And she have a strange nick on MSN, the same that she already have when she left “Everything happen for a reason”. I don’t know what to thing about that.

I miss her so much, I’m lost without her

chuff · Apr 13, 2008, 09:31 PM

You are going to hate this, but you have to pull back all the way. You are coming off as desperate and the truth is you are. That's not a knock, it's just that you are willing to do anything for her, which is only going to make you look bad because a woman will see that will not be attractive to her.

djsk · Apr 13, 2008, 09:48 PM

Originally Posted by narolis

First please read my first post I lost my love who was also my best friend

I seen her last week. She was doing an activity for school with her group and she invited friends and me. So I went of course (I would do anything for her), but surprise when I arrived I was the only one who came. So I was alone with her and her group, that don’t know me and I don’t know if they know our story. It was the first time since she left that we was together with no one else.

I wish I could have been enabled to have a real good conversation with her and make her laugh like we used to. All that time I was there next to her, she was so beautiful, I wanted to take her in my arms but I couldn’t so I didn’t :(
I was with my car so I propose her to take her home, she was taking the bus, but she didn’t want I don’t know for exact what reason, but I would have love to.

I haven’t talk to her since then. I wonder if it was a good things that I was there with her. And she have a strange nick on MSN, the same that she already have when she left “Everything happen for a reason”. I don’t know what to thing about that.

I miss her so much, I’m lost without her

OK I agree with chuff but not all woman are like that! Because I to was like you or in that spot.
But hey have you told her you like her? The way you do!

talaniman · Apr 14, 2008, 07:27 AM

Sorry seeing her again, has stirred all those old feelings up, and you have to start all over again. You know the routine, start with no contact, and read the links in my signature.

narolis · Apr 14, 2008, 05:35 PM

And what should I think about her MSN nick?

andreaamord · Apr 15, 2008, 02:00 AM

Well, that's life... try to accept everything... it's time to heal those wounds in your heart and love yourself more...

narolis · Apr 19, 2008, 06:06 AM

Originally Posted by djsk

ok i agree with chuff but not all woman r like that!! because i to was like u or in that spot.
but hey have u told her u like her? the way u do!?

Yes I did, but long time ago. I don't know if she believe it or not but she's supposed to know how much I love her and mean to me.

talaniman · Apr 19, 2008, 06:25 AM

Originally Posted by narolis

Yes I did, but long time ago. I don't know if she believe it or not but she's supposed to know how much I love her and mean to me.

I would like to know how is she supposed to know that?

narolis · Apr 19, 2008, 06:30 AM

Originally Posted by talaniman

I would like to know how is she supposed to know that?

I told her

andreaamord · Apr 19, 2008, 06:57 AM

:confused: hmm... maybe try to go away from her for now... if she really the right person for you, sooner she will change for all her actions and love you more than she does before... :D God is good... he will help you... :)

kaitou · Apr 19, 2008, 06:58 AM

Originally Posted by narolis

And what should I think about her MSN nick?

Don't think about it, it doesn't mean anything. And even if means something it might not be related to you. So it is best to not think about it at all.

Now start no contact and start healing. Stop thinking about her, go to the gym, go out with other friends, have fun, enjoy single life!

s_cianci · Apr 19, 2008, 07:10 AM

Well I read your first post. You really didn't supply too many specifics but it's obvious that you made the mistake of putting her on a pedestal and idolizing her. Is she really the only woman in the world with all these traits? You and I both know that that's not true. And you need to come to the understanding that it's important to become your own best friend first. Neediness and insecurity are a big turn-off and only serve to make you look weak. Be happy and comfortable with who and what you are. Then I think you'll find success in other aspects of your life.