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    Apr 10, 2008, 07:50 PM
    i like my boss and don't know if we share the same intentions
    [well here's my question. I am a medical assistant and I work at a private practise and I like this guy I have a crush on he's my boss.im really fond of him he is too fine.his mother the doctor and he is doctor of her practice.since I started working I was attracted to him strong ,we have eye contact and he smiles at me during the eye contact thing, he was the one who acctualy hired me.when ever I'm close to him its like I get worms,or butterflies in my stomach.he makes my hart race and I haven even known him for that long.what should I do he is my boss.and his mother is the doc and its her practice he also has a x wife but I don't qwite know if he is single,or if we share the same intentions.help:( :( :o :rolleyes: :o [
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    Apr 10, 2008, 08:02 PM
    Well, since he's divorced... and assuming that he's not dating anyone, he's "technically" fair game.

    HOWEVER, ethically speaking, he is your boss... and I have a policy: "NEVER DATE CO-WORKERS!"...

    Sometimes it works, but a lot of times, it doesn't work... then you have to quit... and etc. etc. etc.

    Unless you feel like there's a STRONG sense of a hint coming from him, I'd steer clear and just hold off on him... til you get another job.
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    Apr 10, 2008, 08:03 PM
    I would get to know him first to make sure he's not married and is single. Then take things from there because I am in that position now. I didn't bother asking and me and my boss's relationship was taken too far, and theenn is when found out he was married.. so yea get to know him first. See if he has the same feelings for you, you'll know if it's right or not :)
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    Apr 11, 2008, 03:01 AM
    Slap his butt and ask if he wants more.
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    Apr 11, 2008, 03:11 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by 121006
    Slap his butt and ask if he wants more.
    What the heck? I think you've been watching scrubs too much or something! Phhhfffttt!
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    Apr 11, 2008, 03:19 AM
    LOL. It's good advice. It would work on me.

    Besides, it's just a crush.
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    Apr 11, 2008, 03:53 AM
    What I feel is that this is an infatuation. You don't know him very well and also he is your boss. Don't take any decisions emotionally... bcoz its your life. Try to know him more.. so take your own time and decide... dnt be in a hurry...
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    Apr 11, 2008, 04:18 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by 121006
    LOL. It's good advice. It would work on me.

    Besides, it's just a crush.
    I had no doubt on that one! :rolleyes:
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    Apr 11, 2008, 04:43 AM
    First if you want to risk your job, perhaps your future job by having a bad reference. If there is a "spark" quit, change jobs and then date him, never date your boss at work
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    Apr 11, 2008, 11:12 AM
    Keep you fantasies to yourself, and do your job well. The rest will become clear in the future, but for now protect your JOB!!
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