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    Apr 9, 2008, 02:12 AM
    Afraid to love again
    I'm afraid to love again after my past relationship... we`ve been together for more than a year after his confession. He slept with another girl and get her pregnant?But I'm not sure if it`s really true ( know him, he`s a liar! ).
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    Apr 9, 2008, 03:04 AM
    Well I can't see anybody telling a lie like that if he was trying to destroy your relationship yeah but why would he say that why wouldn't he just brake up with you?

    How long you been apart now?
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    Apr 9, 2008, 11:30 AM
    Why are you still with this liar? Oh liar, and cheater!
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    Apr 9, 2008, 05:08 PM
    I'm sure there's a guy out there that's recently got screwed over who is saying he's afraid to love again as well. Maybe that's your guy and you can share the pain. Maybe not. But his decisions can not be something that YOU allow to affect your happiness. Your happiness comes from you and you have earned the right to enjoy a happy life with someone or without. But that is your decision... not his.
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    Apr 9, 2008, 08:17 PM
    True or not, something like that shouldn't be taken lightly. Ok so lets say its true.. he's a cheater and a liar, now lets say it's not true... that makes him a liar. Look this guy is NO good for you. If you are afraid to love again, then don't jump into another relationship. Take this time to figure out who you are and what you want out of life and a relationship. You aren't the only one to be hurt like this. I promise you, you will move on for this and in hindsight... you will realize that you have not only survived this, but in fact it has made you a stronger woman. Live your life for the moment. Don't get into another relationship until you are over this one and by all means CUT CONTACT with this guy. He's not worth your time or tears.

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