[shawnn]

OK so I need help. I just got broken up with after 5 months almost 6. its got to be the hardest thing I have ever been through. I have NEVER felt this way with another guy I don't know what to do we have been very on a off but one day he had came over about a weeek ago and we were broken up but he said that he wouldn't hurt me anymore and he would make me happy everyday. So after that we were perfectlly fine. Then all the sudden he just broke up with me and I have never felt so heartbroken in my life. I feel like ill never get over him. I gave my virginty to him so it makes it even worse. We had broken up so many times before but I know this times for good. I have a class with him and everything so I don't know how to act or what to do please help me

[Siphamandla]

Hi there!
Look, I know how you feel. Sorry about what has happeed to you. I know that you loved the guy since it's so difficult for you to move on with your life and you even gave the guy your virginity. However, what has happened has passed and all that is left is the memories of yesterday. To be truly honest with you sweetheart, I am talking from expirience, time is a healer. Just give it some time and you'll be over him. Just some day he may realize that he made the most foolish thing by leting you go. Sweetheart, just don't lose hope in love. You can still fall in love again. Just keep on believing you'll see. However you should know that in every thing we do we expose ourselves to risk. Love has it's risk, that is the risk of getting you heart broken. What is bad is that we don't decide whether to fall in love or not. No, we are not given that choice. Love sweep us out of our feets. Hopwever don't look at the risk of love but look at the fun side of it. Even though you have lost your virginity, there are a million of women out there who are having a serious, happy and fulfilling love life but they are not with the ones who took their virginity. Take care... stop stressing because you are bracking my heart... keep on smiling, stay yourselve and all will be right in time.

[COOKIE MONSTER]

Hun you have to act like your over him when he's around [don't sit their looking over at him]
Keep yourself bizi bizi bizi don't sit their thinking about him get on with the thing's your supposed to be doing,go out with friends to try and take your mind of him

You said it was very off and on well you don't need something that's off and on,it's either on or its off not both,both is not a good relationship

You need to realise that the relationship wasn't good for you being off and on and move on don't just jump into another relationship give yourself some time to get over the one you've just come out of

Its not the end of the world there are plenty of fish in the sea