[Ms. Maxwell]

I am a 25 year old black woman. I found the man I want ot marry but I'm afarid that I can't have kids. I want a child so bad. Please tell me what I can do.

[kp2171]

I've always felt adoption is a great option.

My wife and I have one daughter (19) son (2) and are talking about the possibility of adoption, even though she can still have children. When you are blessed with a good life, I think adoption is a wonderful way to give a child in need the love and the life they deserve.

[fredg]

Hi,
I am sure it was a "blow" finding out you can't have children. The other answer about adoption is very good. I got the pop-up saying "spread around"... when I tried to add a comment to that answer.
There are children, babies, all over America, who need a good home, with love.

[Fr_Chuck]

You said you are afraid you can't have children.

Why are you afraid, has the doctor told you this, did you have some illness or accident that makes it impossible.

If you are having trouble concieving, there are medical procedures to help with concieving. You have not explained enough to properly understand your problem