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startover22 · Mar 27, 2008, 10:35 PM

:) thank you for the explaination:)

Rawrxo · Mar 27, 2008, 10:37 PM

No problem, I'm just not the kind of person who would want that at this age I have so many things I want to do but yah I appreciate all the support

startover22 · Mar 27, 2008, 10:40 PM

Ok, so Raw, let us figure out if you are or aren't pregnant before we go any further.
If there are other things you need to talk aobut, you can do that here too. I got to git my buns in bed. Goodnight!

Rawrxo · Mar 27, 2008, 10:42 PM

Thanks goodnight ill let you guys all know when I find out

startover22 · Mar 28, 2008, 10:02 AM

Hey Raw, just wondering...

Alty · Mar 28, 2008, 08:39 PM

Raw - We're all here for you when and if you need us. Please let us know either way. I know that we are all worried about you.

Take care Dear, and know that we are here for you.

IloveMySon · Mar 29, 2008, 12:22 AM

All those risk are a lot easier then having a baby trust me I am young and I'm a single mommy..
But you do need to find out because sounds to me like you are pregnant. Good luck
And keep us posted...

Rawrxo · Apr 1, 2008, 09:56 PM

Hey sorry haven't posted just been dealing with things lately
I went to the doctor and yes its positive and I've already been talking to my parents and the father about it and there here to support which ever decision I make so I've got a lot of people but still just really worried about making the wrong choice now
Thanks for eeveryones support and help

charlotte234s · Apr 1, 2008, 10:20 PM

I wish you luck and I will keep you in my thoughts, I know it is hard to be young and have such stress, but you will get through this. Make sure you take care of yourself wel.

startover22 · Apr 1, 2008, 10:46 PM

Originally Posted by Rawrxo

hey sorry havent posted just been dealing with things lately
i went to the doctor and yes its positive and ive already been talking to my parents and the father about it and there here to support which ever decision i make so ive got a lot of ppl but still just really worried about making the wrong choice now
thanks for eeveryones support and help

Oh Raw, thanks for coming back to let us know. ;)
I am so happy you are talking to your parents, remember to take care of your body girl. If you even want to discuss your options with someone, there are lot's of people here ready to give you advice or just their opinions! :)
Good luck sweet heart!

Rawrxo · Apr 1, 2008, 11:38 PM

Thank you
I'm up for anyone's advice or options right now I'm stressing out cause people keep saying if I keep the baby I won't be able to become a nurse but I still think I could
Anyone wanting to talk to me right now would be very helpful

startover22 · Apr 2, 2008, 09:14 AM

Looks like you are on when I am going to bed Raw. Listen, there are many options and I suppose you should just get a pen and paper and write them down in columns. Be honest with yourself, and write your thoughts down (not what every one around you has told you to believe) YOUR THOUGHTS. Then take a few days to settle those honest thoughts in your heart and mind.
I would also love for you to go to a local Planned Parenthood office, your parents could go with you, or you could go on your own. They can present you with A LOT of valuable information. YOu need to know your rights and options.

With any option you choose, you are going to want to look back when you are older, and maybe a parent, and say I feel like I did the right thing for myself at the time. These need to be honest feelings, not "outside" feelings, and why I say this is because, whether you choose, keeping the baby, aborting the baby or giving the baby up for adoption, you need to be able to say your choice was an honest one.

We can give you our opinions, if you want them, but this needs to be your choice sweet heart! I will check in to see if you have come back. Take good care of yourself! Hugs!