[FaderFan]

Ok, so I dated this guy for a couple months about a year and a half ago, and then I broke up with him because I wasn't feeling anything anymore. So then after about like 6 months went by we started just talking as friends again. And after a while I started to have feelings for him again.He has this girlfriend who is basically a , she pretty much made him stop being friends with his best friend because she didn't like him. And he did, because she has him whiped. So anyway he has heard a lot of rumors about her cheating on him, and he even caught her texting with some guy that he had gotten into a fight with a long time ago. So he is all messed up and a seems like he wants to break up with her but for some reason he won't. So now I stay in good contact with him hoping that he will come to his senses and break up with her. And reciently when we have been talking through myspace or texting andhe has been calling me hun like all the time. And he really still seems top care about me. And I don't know if I should try to get him, or just sit back and do nothing.

[R0cKin_t33N]

Well 1st let it be known that your not a "Rebound Girl"... 2nd give him a shoulder to cry on... he'll know that you care (and he might even move on with that retarted girl). Here's an idea... if you guys talk so much on Myspace and Texting then tell him how you feel 1 week after the break-up(if it happens).
GuD LuCk.

[nkychic]

Keep in mind this simple rule... If you let a guy know that you are going to wait on him, he will probably make you wait. If you honestly think he still has feelings for you and you are SURE you want to be with him this time, then tell him how you feel. Keep it honest and make it short. Make sure you tell him that this doesn't mean you are going to wait around for him. Tell him once and that's it. You don't want to pressure him to make a decision and you don't want him to think you'll continue to wait. Tell him that if he does not want to be with you, then you can accept that. If you are still willing to be his friend, that's great, but let him know that as far as relationships are concerned you DO plan to move on if he chooses to stay with her. Don't ever leave yourself vulnerable to becoming "the other girl", it's NO fun! Good luck hon!

<3 Leslie

[barbiechick123]

If you are certain you like him and are pretty sure he might still like you than I think you should talk to him... my only question is if you talk to him on the phone or in person, or in any other verbal way that isn't through the internet.

[nkychic]

I would suggest normally in person, but considering the circumstances I would say a phone call is probably better. Let him know when you talk to him on the internet that you want to talk to him and let him choose how it's done.