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offtharip · Feb 23, 2006, 01:07 PM

I Live With My Girlfriend And One Of My Male Friends Yesterday My Girlfriend Kicked My Friend Out Because They Were To Different Ie He Was A Slob And Has No Manners I Was Not There And I Have No Say In The Situation But This Guy Says Its My Responsibility To Be There When That Happened And Now He Wants To Talk To Me Today What Can I Do Its Her Choice And I Accept That I Feel Like Im Being Dragged Into The Problems They Have W Each other And I Don't Think Its Fair If She Kicked Me Out It Wouldn't Be His Responsibility To Be There When She Did So and Frankly I Wouldn't Want Him There Either What Do I Do

CaptainForest · Feb 23, 2006, 01:20 PM

You girlfriend can't kick him out without giving him proper notice as required by law.

Your girlfriend has no interest to live with your friend. So, choose. Do you live with your girlfriend or your friend?

nwsflash · Feb 23, 2006, 01:30 PM

I would tell them both that your not willing to play go between him and with her... Sounds like this guy must have really pissed you GF off if she has gone to the point of kicking him out the house.

Some people get along and some don't, that's just the way of life... I'd keep well out of it, and why should you have to be there... Sounds like your friend is looking for someone to blame and doesn't want to admitt it was HIM.

offtharip · Feb 23, 2006, 01:31 PM

Sorry About Not Clarifying Where We Live There Is No Rental Agreement Her Aunt Owns The Property And He Was Given A Month To Leave I Just Don't Know Why The Differences They Have Are My Responsibility She Told Him To Leave She Is Sick Of The Lack Of Respect And Manners Am I In The Wrong For Not Involving Myself In This Issue?

offtharip · Feb 23, 2006, 01:33 PM

You Give Sound Advice Thanks For The Imput

CaptainForest · Feb 23, 2006, 01:35 PM

No You Are Not Wrong.

It Is Her Aunt's Place.

He Is Just Trying To Blame Someone But Himself. Tell Him You Are Sorry He And Your Girlfriend Can't Get Along, But Perhaps Then It Is For The Best.

nwsflash · Feb 23, 2006, 01:37 PM

She Is Sick Of The Lack Of Respect And Manners Am I In The Wrong For Not Involving Myself In This Issue?

Bingo there is your answer, you either need to get your friend to change his ways, i.e. get some manners and do jobs around the house, our I'd agree with your girlfriend... Are you wrong for not getting involved? Hummm well it's there issue, I would make them sort it between themselves.

offtharip · Feb 23, 2006, 01:49 PM

Thank you For The Feedback I Now Know What I Must Do

nwsflash · Feb 23, 2006, 01:55 PM

Your more than welcome, hope everything turns out OK for you!!