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    dani04 Posts: 55, Reputation: 3
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    Mar 19, 2008, 07:39 PM
    My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago
    My ex boyfriend and I were together for about a year. Then he broke up with me. And I asked a lot of questions on here about how to deal with it and what to do.. etc
    Well last night he emailed me and told me he misses me
    And says were just on a break
    And we are on this break because when we do get back together we will realise we missed each other so much that we won't fight and then that way our relationship will last.
    He said some pretty sweet stuff. This guy is really nice and all and I would hate to actually loose him for good. But I don't know if I should wait or move on or what...
    He even told me he is in love with me.:)
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    Mar 19, 2008, 08:00 PM
    Sometimes we do take the things we have for granted.

    If your guys are willing to give it another shot then go for it. You guys didn't seem to end on a bad note.
    Get back with him. But let it be known that your not a rag doll to be thrown away and taken back when he pleases. Make sure you say the next time we split that's it.

    And make sure you take care of yourself

    Regards
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    Mar 19, 2008, 10:35 PM
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    Getting back together means solving your problems, and that takes communications. You may have missed each other, but you haven't even started working on your issues and if you don't, you'll be on another break soon.
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    Mar 19, 2008, 11:20 PM
    You're just as likely to simply repeat the same problems as before unless there is a DIFFERENCE in your relationship when(if) you get back together.

    If you DO decide to give it another try, pay attention. If he's the same old guy and you're the same old girl, break it off before you two end up hating each other.

    Just because you realize you won't make it as bf/gf doesn't mean you have to hate each other to get away.
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    Mar 20, 2008, 10:31 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search...archid=2565558

    Getting back together means solving your problems, and that takes communications. You may have missed each other, but you haven't even started working on your issues and if you don't, you'll be on another break soon.
    How should I start the first step on working on our issues?

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