[angelica1999]

My husbend tells me about his girl friend she use to have more than one orgasm aday during intercoures and he mention about porn star they so quickly he wants me the same .

[starfirefly]

What's the question??

[KISS]

FWIW: Some females can be trained to orgasm "on command" verbally at any time.

Multiple orgasms per day is common. One problem, though is how do you define a "single orgasm"?

[kp2171]

Well.. is he taking the time needed to make it happen for you?. and demanding more orgasms is just a way to place a mental block. Its one thing to strive for it... its another to demand it.

Does he ever get you off orally? If he wants you to have more than one orgasm in a session, or in a day, changing the sensations is not a bad start. I can get my partner off with oral easily. After that, she's more responsive to intercourse and might have a second, but not always. The key in her case is getting her body mentally and physically ready. She needs her body rubbed down, a simple massage or tracing fingers over her skin to get her relaxed.

The difference between taking her to orgasm orally with massage first and without massage first is striking. If I take the time to work her body, ease her tension, let her drift into thinking about skin on skin tension, I can get her to orgasm with oral in just several minutes and 100% of the time. Without proper sensual touch, I can get her to orgasm orally maybe a third of the time, it takes longer, and she ends up building her own "skin tension" by feeling herself up, etc. so... point is, do you know what your body needs to get you off consistently, and are you doing this.

This isn't a "recipe" for good sex, but this is an ex of what I posted in another thread about our "routine"... my point is to make you understand how powerful finding Your "routine" can be...

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...tml#post906239

Now... to contrast this... a previous partner I had could have multiple orgasms easily. But she was a bit of a "freak of nature"... specifically, she could tolerate strong cl!toral stimulation that many women cannot. Basically, anytime in intercourse she, or her partner, could "finger" the cl!t and it was an inevitable orgasm. Bank in the bank.

Imagine my surprise, after being the King of the Bedroom with her, getting her off all the time, to find my next partner would smack me upside the head for doing those same "winning" moves on her.

So... my point is this... different women respond differently. This causes problems for the guy because we use what we know from experience and try to apply it to the next relationship. Sometimes it works. Sometimes it doesn't. Over time, I've come to find that you need to keep what works and dump the rest... and you can only do that with talking honestly about sex.

So... back to you. How is your sexual experience in bed? OK? Fair? Good? Can he get you off through intercourse? Are you distracted? Do you lose yourself in the moment?

What about your sex drive? He obviously wants sex more than once a day at times... when he does, are you really interested or just willing? Also, how old are you roughly? 20's? 30's? Younger? Older? Helps to understand his perspective and experience perhaps.

Short answer is I'm guessing you might be able to have more than one orgasm in a day. It might take work he's not willing to do. It might take different stimulation.

And physically what can you physically take? Some women can have sex a lot more often and not feel chafed or not hurt. Some couldn't take that much sex physically.

I don't fault him for using past experience as a reference. I do think he needs to be careful about demands on you concerning sex, especially contracting and comparing to past partners. My partner and I have talked about my past partner to help understand why I did what I did in bed... when done openly and without pressure or pretense, it actually helped us better our sex life. But his pressuring you to be his past girlfriend doesn't fly.

[angelica1999]

I'm 27 years old healthy latley he don't t take his time to get me off and when I try to be honset and open the subject he shut it down .now my sex life fair now and its been like that just about 2 years ago but before that was great its just I had pregnancy after the other my baby she was 6 month than get pregnant now I have anather baby 6 month old so kind of not in the mood and my mental block is when he keept telling me about his previas .cause he did not understan what I'm going throw with pregnancy breast feeding .he never get me off orally .

[Fr_Chuck]

First he is a jerk talking about previous sexual experiences ( unless you want to talk about them for some reason) But depending on what you call single and multiple just many ladies will have several during sex play, If you are doing enough foreplay you could have a one or two before you even start actual intercourse. Sounds like he needs some lessons on many things,

[Choux]

*Porn is acting*

The porn industry is in the business of selling fast orgasms to masturbating men. There is a serious downside to becoming a porn viewer, then addict. It destroys natural human sexuality which leads to ritualistic and fetishistic practices instead of orgasmic bliss.

Women can have orgasmic experiences several times a day if they wish. :)