[bebe1]

What does it mean when your ex-boyfriend runs through your mind all of da sudden or just out of the blue

[Fr_Chuck]

Depends on link of time and the relastonshp. I still have a wonder lady Martha who was so special to me, after 35 years I still have some great fond memories come to me. I went to Six Flags today and could not help but stop thinking about her for a moment because something reminded me of her. So for that, some memories are always with you, getting over is a matter of time and ability to move on.

[COOKIE MONSTER]

I went out with afella afew years back for 2years on and off and before I met myboyfriend he went through mymind every now and then,mostly because when we were together he continuosly accused me of cheatin on him with every tom and harry and he never believed anything I said,he also blamed all are arguments on me,and blamed me for an std

But before I met myboyfriend I ritten myx aletter because I needed to get afew things off mychest and so I could close that chapter of mylife and start anew 1,well that's why I thort he kept running through mymind because things finished badly and he never listend to anything I said so basically I ritten to him saying that I had to get afew things off mychest that have been buggin me the last few years you don't have to read this but at least I've said what I had to say and told him that I never cheated on him because I loved him and I didn't giv him std and enclosed aprint out of the test results from when he said I gave it to him,it was a lot longer than that but I feel a lot better for rightin it and sending it and you no what he hasn't crossed mymind till I started righting this to you

Is their things you wanted to say to him that you never said? Maybe you need to do what I did to get him out your head its just an idea but it helped me

[HistorianChick]

Darlin, you had a relationship with him, you gave a part of your heart to him, you obviously have good memories of him... that's OK!

My ex-fiance abandoned me, disappeared from my life, and I have not heard from him since the day he drove off with no explainable reason... but, I still have good memories of him and think of him at random times. When you get to a place in your life where you are happy and content, you'll be reminded of the things in your past that have brought you happiness and joy...

Time tends to make you forget the bad stuff, the hurtful stuff, the unnecessary things that go on in every break up... Time rounds out the sharp corners of memory and leaves you with the beautiful moments that brought a smile to your face.

So, when do you know when you're over someone? When you are reminded of them and it makes you smile.