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    remedy07 Posts: 13, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 5, 2008, 08:01 PM
    Knowing him for a short period.but it seems like I've known him all my life
    Well I been see my boyfriend for about 6 months.. I just recently got an apartment with him the 1st. Of march and I can't believe I finally got out the situation I was in with my godmom.. man it was hell... she wasn't letting me be a women.. I can't do this I can't do that.. but since I don't have that problem any more I'm just thankful for my boyfriend helping... I couldn't even go out with him... but on the bright side... we getting stuff for the apartment and its going well... today.. since I'm still bleeding after I had my period.. I been imforming him on it.. and he scared as well as me.. as we go into a deep conversation about staying healthy and getting diseases and all... such as cancer and HIV/AID's.. he really scaring me about it though... and I'm scared of giving birth.. I told him I'm not ready to be a mother at this time and he understand where I'm coming from though.. even though longer down the line I want to have a child with him... and then we go into relationships such me and him... and marriage... he thought about numeruos of times such as me... I want to marry him.. some day... but having a kid and getting married was not in my plans.. I rather get married then have a kids.. maybe a boy and a girl.. but right now I'm not ready... but it just looks like I'm pregnant... or have an torn uterine lining... I hope have that though...

    But my question is not about my health its about my relationship... hes said I'm the wifey type of girl... and its set in my head we going to spend a long time together I just hope this because I love him and its hard to find s good man these days... since we got an apartment together and I been knowing him for a short period.. .do you think im falling to quickly and moving in a very fast paste with it all???...cause you know you follow your heart with everything you do and that's what I did... because I trust him... and love him enough... but what you think of it...
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    Mar 6, 2008, 10:15 AM
    From what I read I would say you are moving too fast. You need to mash down on the brakes and start reversing out of this situation.

    From your post I could safely assume that you are between the age 16-20. Majority of people this age are not finiancially independent.

    This boyfriend is probably older.

    Listen, no can prevent you from being a woman but there is a different between being a woman and being a independent woman. Your god-mother has the right to put restrictions on you because you lived under her roof. Let me guess. She didn't want you spending the night out and going out late?

    The fact that you made the statement she does not allow me to be a woman. Show me that you are immature.

    The fact that you are not sure whether you are pregnant reinforces my assumptions.

    Listen.. go to see a doctor a.s.a.p!
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    Mar 6, 2008, 09:49 PM
    Yes I would slow way down, 6 months is way to soon to be thinking about marrying ony1 or having there child, take things slow and I realize your free now but don't rush things cause you may end up back where you were!!
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    Mar 8, 2008, 11:09 PM
    I think you wanted out of the adult supervision thing, and this guy fit the bill. You sure are putting a lot of faith in a stranger, and yes 6 months is not long at all. Following your heart, and not listening to your brain, is a recipe for disaster, so I hope your right, and I'm wrong. I doubt it though, sorry.
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