[The young lover]

I am a young teen and in love me and him have had our moments and he flirts a lot but sometimes it seems llike he just likes me for my development... likes my boobs and other personal body parts well I let (do want he wants with them) but he acts like he doesn't so ooh well I let him because it feels so rite... but if he loves me I want to know so I can ask him out! My best friend is going out with his best friend and my lovers best friends says that we act like we love each other and I love him but... DOES HE LOVE ME??



The young lover


p.s. Please I'm despirt! Lol THANK YOU! :D

[barbiechick123]

Wait you guys fool around.. but aren't dating?
And if he only likes you for your boobs/butt/ etc. that's really shallow and superficial, he only thinks your hot. He doesn't think you have a good personality. But your thread was hard to understand. Can you re explain it?

[justcurious55]

So you guys only fool around, you're not dating, you "love" him? If that's the case, you're his booty call. If he loved you he'd of asked you out himself already. If you're falling for him, get out of this twisted relationship before you get your heart completely broken. He doesn't love you, he's using you

[The young lover]

wait u guys fool around.. but arent dating?
and if he only likes u for ur boobs/butt/ etc. thats really shallow and superficial, he only thinks ur hot. he doesnt think u hav a good personality. but ur thread was hard to understand. can u re explain it?

Thank you for answering and you see sometimes he just says something like hey buddy and he will put his arm around me and sits there and grabs but he acts like he doesn't he won't admit any of this and I know if I say something he might freak and deny it so.. im just waiting till he can admit to it and we aren't dating... yet :p but I really do love him!. and you just may be rite he thinks I am hott or else he wouldn't grab like that lol but I think he likes my personality but somedays with guys can't tell! :(



Thanks!
The young lover

[Wondergirl]

Grabbing and fondling your body parts has nothing to do with love. Even in your heading, you wrote, "How do I know he loves me". And then you said, "we are just teens but in love!" No, you two aren't in love. Love doesn't act like that.

[The young lover]

We don't judt fool we care what is happening and I may be young but I know how to love and what it is were you are willing to give up your own life 4 your lover and you don't care what they look like and there is so much more to it! I just don't know if loves me! He talks to me he acually cares-like when I was in the hospital he was the only one who came to see me (besides my family course) but maybe he doesn't love me he was just checking on me out of kindness at this point he mite not love me :( I feel pretty sad but you all make rele good points maybe its lust he is feeling but I want love from him because that's what I've been trying to give to him! Thanks 4 all of your advise! :)-The young lover

[Wondergirl]

it is were u r willing to give up ur own life 4 ur lover and u dont care wat they look like and there is so much more to it!

Are you willing to be married to him for 40 years? If he gets Alzheimer's and doesn't know who you are anymore, will you still love him? If he is in a horrible car crash and ends up with terrible scar tissue all over his body and face, will you still love him? If not, it's not love. At your age, it is "like" or "puppy love" or "lust" but it's not love. And I'm betting you wouldn't give up your life for him.

[The young lover]

I love him! You don't hafe to be old to love "young love" :D but yeah if he doesn't love me I will still tell him how I feel and after a month and he says he loves me mayb he's just trying to bang me I don't know I'm confuzzled and if bad came to worst I would die for him! And any life is worth dying for whether you love them or hate them and knowing that he loves me or once loved me is good enough at this point! Ugly unknowing me and anything else just love is what I want from him!Thank you :d!

[barbiechick123]

You shouldn't be throwing around the word love, because it seems like you are. I don't think you are in love, but I don't know u, so I wouldn't know, it just seems that your too young, plus if he's only trying to bang you he's not relly sum1 to love...

[justcurious55]

I agree with barbiechick. Sure, you can be young and in love. But it doesn't sound like you are. Love and lust are different. It sounds like lust. Its not necessarily bad. Its just not love.

[Simple Asian]

Well I will say sorry now b.c that I will come really strong and forward….not to be rude but this is the only way that I can tell you since now you just so stubborn.

You are not in love ….you are nowhere in love at all….to tell you the true I don't even know what love is yet…but I do know that love is something that you have to experiment with your partner thought time and be with each other

Love is something you can develop by just a walk in the park or just simply keep talking to each other on the phone for 3 hour without feeling awkward ….

And it has nothing to do with sex …well you can correct me there if I am wrong …but this dude you telling me about that he grabs you touching …and you let him…and he not stopping then.. he in it for “IT” …so ditch him or not.. it you …

I don't think you would right ? So how about take sometime …sit down and think …what so good about him …and is he treating you right ? …should he treating you this way ?

come back here tell me what going on after you clear your mind OK ? ^^

[The young lover]

Thank you! I did think about it (ALOT) and Ive been stubornn. Guess I just didn't want to believe it I have come to relize this is not love yes you can be young and in love but you guys are rite this isn't love :( I did feel pretty strongly about him but yeah not love! I guess when your thinking about what feelings your having at the times you forget the real ones! I'm really sorry your were all rite! I kind of sounded like a whore :(... I even talked to my friends they more than agree lol. There are other guys in the world and probably better ones... you see I think he acted like he cared so he get to me but lately as you can tell my thinking hasn't been so strait :( But thank you a lot for all your adivise (everyone! :D) And I really sorry for not acually listening to you guys and getting it thought my head :S lol

[justcurious55]

I'm just glad you've come to your sense now! Haha

[kitten94515]

I agree with everyone. I am a teen to and I thought that a guy touching you or whatever you want to call it, is good and it shows they care. No it doesnt;; I learned my dad was right every guy just wants to get in your pants. Lol. And no I know what your feeling, its not love though. [its not a word] but I call it adoration.
U really like him. And say everything good about him. Believe me. I know too.

[adviceangel123]

This is deff lust.
I'm 15, and I know what's love and what's lust.. and this is not love .
Love is not a$$ grabbing , or any of that stuff .
Love is wonderful , love is when no matter what you look like , he still loves you .
You can be your crazy self around him .
There's no 'fake' in your relationship .
To know its love , you and him can talk like your close friends .
I'm 15 and dating a 19 year old. I don't want to hear any 'omg! he's old ' .
I don't give a care in the world, what you say .
Its 4 years apart . Deal with it .
Me and his relationship is special , been 9 months .
Haha , I'm myself with him . He's my protecter like my dad , he's my best friend , where I run to when I'm upset or just really needing a talk . I can't have deep conversations (conversations I would have with my close girl friends ).
He also fills my heart up . I would jump in front of a car for him . Me and him are kind of like twins, we're the same person (acting) , but we are also very different(im a junk food lover , while he hates junk food .
I just want to say something . Everyone caan love , your not to OLD or YOUNG to not love .
But make the right decision .
This boy has no interest in your mind . Could you talk about anything deep ? Could you tell your deepest secrets you tell your friends and trust him to not tell a soul?. will he respect your choices and be there for you . Even when you feel like blah , and everyone turned against you?
Your lover is suppose to be all ; he is your father , your best friend , your brother , your love , your life .
My love is .
Respect yourself . Cause to respect yourself , you will have respect from guys .
Don't let him feel you up , he has to respect you and your body and YOU need to, also , respect yourself .
Best of luck , xoxo

[adviceangel123]

. I can** have deep conversation.
Sorry for the spelling mistakes : )