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Ayshasid · Mar 4, 2008, 02:38 PM

I am a virgin and for the first time I had oral sex and after when I went to the bathroom to clean up I had blood stain.. Is it possible for the hymen to break like this?

If I saw the stains does that mean he saw them on his finger as well? It embarrasses me, but he never said anything about it.

ampersandra · Mar 4, 2008, 03:02 PM

It's hard to tell. What colour and texture was the blood? In my own experience, it was thin and watery. If yours was like that, it would be less visible. There is no need to be embarrassed though. It's normal to bleed the first time. Plus as a non-virgin, I still bleed slightly after very rough sex... especially if I haven't been getting any for a while.

Fr_Chuck · Mar 4, 2008, 03:12 PM

It is a normal part of life, nothing to be embarrassed about

kp2171 · Mar 4, 2008, 11:34 PM

Don't worry about it...

Really.

While some consider breaking of the hymen a loss of virginity, most consider penetration by intercourse as the real act.

sasl · Mar 7, 2008, 02:08 AM

You have nothing to be embarast about... whatever the reason of the blood you ought to be more concerned for your boddy then the embarasment...

The first time my first boyfriend fingured me I thought my piriod was over but it wasn't... im sure he notised but he didn't say anything so I pretended I didn't know and sugested we take a shower (my suttle plan to wash it of before it got light and he coulnt see)
If this boy has not said anything he is being a gentalmen and repects that is is natural and isn't bothered

charlotte234s · Mar 7, 2008, 02:58 AM

It's normal for some women to have bleeding when the hymen breaks after intercourse, as long as it wasn't a waterfall or anything, there's nothing to worry about, and nothing to be embarrassed about.

Choux · Mar 7, 2008, 06:50 PM

Good sex is all about secretions, scents, drool, squeaks, perspiration, vocalizations, and a whole lot of other physical stuff... it is not for those easily embarrassed. :D

As for the initial blood, that is natural. Any blood in the future requires a physician's visit.

blk_beauty · Mar 9, 2008, 01:15 PM

To my understanding you said it was oral? Did he finger you while giving you oral? If that was the case maybe it was your hymen, or maybe it's just time for your monthly and your spoting, and if he didn't say anything its because either he didn't notice, or he's mature enough to understand the female body.