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jolynn · Feb 28, 2008, 01:23 PM

Well I am in a big mess. I am seeing I guess you can say my baby's father again. I love this man with all my heart but I have done a lot to him to make him not trust me and believe the things I say. He is with another girl but has told her that he is not sure if he wants to be with her of with me. She is sticking by him and I have become the other women. I don't like begin the other women but I really love him and want him back. He says that he still love me but it not like it use to be. I am putting a lot on the line for him and I am so afraid and I going to loose him again because of our past but I have changed a lot I just have to prove it to him and he says once I do that he will leave his girlfriend and come back to me and the baby. But it is hard for me to prove to him when I live so far away and will only get to see him so much. I am really afraid of loosin him. I have got myself in a big mess and I not sure if it is going to be worth it.

Synnen · Feb 28, 2008, 01:38 PM

You need to live your life for YOU and for your baby.

Whether this will have your baby-daddy in your--who knows?

He's seeing someone else, now, girl! You don't want to be the cause of that ending, because you'll always wonder about it, and wonder if he thinks of HER.

If you love him, you'll focus on YOU, not on HIM. I'm sure he's loving the thrill of having two women want him, and beg for him. Do you really want to lower yourself to that?

Improve your own life. Do things that make YOU happy. Being happy and healthy yourself will attract happy and healthy people to you.

jolynn · Feb 28, 2008, 01:59 PM

Originally Posted by Synnen

You need to live your life for YOU and for your baby.

Whether or not this will have your baby-daddy in your--who knows?

He's seeing someone else, now, girl! You don't want to be the cause of that ending, because you'll always wonder about it, and wonder if he thinks of HER.

If you love him, you'll focus on YOU, not on HIM. I'm sure he's loving the thrill of having two women want him, and beg for him. Do you really want to lower yourself to that?

Improve your own life. Do things that make YOU happy. Being happy and healthy yourself will attract happy and healthy people to you.

Thanks for your advice . But it is really hard to do what you say. I am trying to live my own life but I think of him a lot and it effects me.