[Clough]

I Live in canada
To answerr your other question

Thanks for the answer! In addition to anniekee's post, I am also wondering how you are doing and how things are going in this situation?

[Hellomylove07]

Hayy,
My name is Teresa.I am also 14. I know how you feel. I've been through it too. Just remember this *Alcoholism is NOT a choice. It's a disease.* It's very dangerous. And looking at what your going through right now... I know you know. My mom did the same thing. But not only on the weekends. Before she stopped drinking, she was the WORST person I could ever be around. Her and my dad both. My mom use to drink till she past out. Use to get so drunk she didn't even know who me and my sister were, we had to show her pictures and tell her stories get videos out and everything. She was horrible. She would fight and curse. In the middle of the night I would hear my mom and Dad fighting. I would never get enough sleep, I'd stay up and cry... for hours even when they were asleep. I hated my life. But there is help. There are plenty of ways to get your mom some help. And you will deffinately like the outcome afterwards. My mom got in touch with the local AA(Alcoholics Anonymous) Intergroup(your mom can do the same), stayed there for 30 days(month or so) and then came home. I saw a total different side of my mom. She actually hugged me like she meant it. I got an awesome relationship with her and she was continuously going to meetings to share and listen to what people had to say. Honestly, I never understood the meetings when I was little because goodness me I was only 6 and my sister was 9. but, we met people who cared about us, as much as helped my mom. My mom has just celebrated 7 years of sobriety. I promise you that when you go to the local AA Intergroup you will find help. Ask for pamplets and set them around the house where your mom can see them.

Your parents may think It's not a big deal but it really is. They may not realize it now but it is. Alcoholism is a serious disease.

[Sodium]

Okay in repsonse, my mom has too much pride to even consider it
Like
Its gotten better now, But only because she's working again.
So she doesn't have time to drink [HAHA]

[Sodium]

And I do have a safe place, I have many people I can go to for help.
But once again, it has gotten better, and she doesn't drink herself drunk every weekend now
She only has like 1-3 beers, haha, Its better, and I didn't have to confront her about it, I have said stuff, but now, I can't remember the last time she's been completely drunk

[Clough]

Thanks for the update, Sodium! I'm glad that things are going better for you in this situation! Please keep us posted, OK?

[Hellomylove07]

If she's still drinking she's still addicted. It doesn't matter how much she drinks;
Whether its heavily or not. She still has a problem, but I guess it's better then drinking heavily. I'm glad that your doing good but I'm still a little worried.
Please contact me if you have any questions or anything. Have a great day!
Teresa