xxxlovecanhurtxxx disagrees: he doesn't leave a slob trail or anything like that its just I don't like the way he kisses... thx for the answer though
First of all... please don't throw around disagrees like candy. A disagree is meant to flag an answer that is factually incorrect, per the AMHD site rules. Even if the poster makes an assumption that isn't spot on, you should restrain yourself from slapping those who are taking time to try to help you, especially when they are approaching your problem thoughtfully and kindly. Jolie gives great advice, you should be glad to have her attention.
Next... what's the problem? Does he kiss too hard? Soft? Too much tongue? Not enough? Too slow? Fast? What's the problem?
Then, as the good advice you've had has already said, find a way to lead him. If my partner tells me "softer" or "slower" or "deeper" I listen.
Open communication and a willingness to let down your guard and leave your inhibitions at the door go a long way toward your getting what you want.
If he is offended... well... he has a lot to learn. I've done a lot of things wrong before I did them right... and it took a strong girl saying "thats not what i need" to get me to understand.
So... start speaking up now. I promise you, even if he doesn't respond kindly, and he might very well listen to every word if he has half a clue, you will be better off for starting to take control of your own sexuality early on.