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    kelseybean Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 24, 2008, 05:05 PM
    Delayed orgasm
    So me and my boyfriend have just gotten closer, and more sexual. We've only done the touching thing. The first 2 of times he orgasmed fairly quickly (like within 10 minutes), and now it is taking him a really long time (like almost an hour), am I doing anything wrong?
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    Feb 24, 2008, 05:32 PM
    No, I'm sure you're doing fine, the time it takes men to finish can vary, depending on their mood, whether they've masturbated or been active lately, and a million other things. Be sure to use protection, though!
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    Feb 24, 2008, 11:27 PM
    Charlotte is correct, many things affect response time. Ask him. Maybe now that he is used to you touching him, he would like a different type of touch. This isn't a bad thing at all. Add moisture perhaps, or he may need to really watch what is going on while you are touching him and can't see through your hair.
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    Feb 24, 2008, 11:41 PM
    Does he seem bored.. women don't believe this, but guys can "fake" enjoying it as well.

    Try and talk to him and see what he likes and what he wants.
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    Feb 26, 2008, 01:21 PM
    Let me see if I understand correctly... you touched and masturbated his penis and it only took 10 minutes for him to ejaculate, and now it takes an hour to masturbate him to orgasm? An hour is an extremely long time to take for a young guy to ejaculate! For some reason, he is not turned on enough or he doesn't want to come.

    Don't blame yourself! Why do all you young women blame yourselves for everything when sex doesn't go as you imagine it should? You have to communicate with him, and remember, you are inexperienced so he can pull the wool over your eyes. Hopefully, he will be direct with you.
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