[brokenhearted1515]

I have been with this guy for 6 months... everything was fantastic... he is a great guy... when he opens up! A total sap! Ok so we have just been spending soooo much time togther... and kind of getting on eachothers nerves... argueing about nothing often. But man did we have fun... the best relationship I have been in! I think we moved tooo fast! Like together 247! So 2 weeks ago I told him that I think that we should spend less time together... my first mistake! He took this very hard... I tried to explain that I still wanted to be with him... just not every minute of the day! As I said before he is very sensitive! So he backed off a lot... I guess trying to teach me a lesson! We talked about everything and after a week all was was fine... then out of nowwhere he dumped me... the day before valentines day!! Said that I crushed him... and that he is closed up and emotionless... and that he has no feelings for me anymore! But the day before he's telling me that he sees forever in me? So I figure he just wants me to chase him a bit to show how I feel towards him... my second mistake... I show up at his house to appoligize 2 days later... after he won't return my calls! He tells me to get out of his life... that he is tooo hurt and totally closed up! What do I do? I want him sooo bad? I think he's trying to teach me a lesson?? Helppppp??

[Marriedguy]

I would write him a nice letter explain your feelings and apologize for hurting him. Tell him how much he made you happy and how you miss feeling this way. Tell him that you hope that he finds happiness even if its not with you. Sign it and put your telephone number at the bottom. Then the hard part is leave him alone. If he feelings are genuine he will come back/