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    scrplayer087 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 21, 2008, 07:26 PM
    Were prefect together too bad she has a boyfriend
    Backround info:
    I went to the libaray and I sit down and see this girl in front of me. She looks at me and smiles and I smile at her and I think to myself " wow this is everything i look for in a girl" ( by looks) So I go up to her ( and me not being a ladies man at all ) I say : " hey i have to go to the bathroom can you watch myself so no1 steals it." I then go into the bathroom and just stand there so it doesn't look like I just wanted to talk to her . I go back in and I start talking to her again cracking some jokes but I fail to get her name and number ( like I said I'm timid)... I go back to work and we casually look at each other smiling and what not , until she gets up and waves goodbye and proceeds to leave. Now I'm thinking... should I chase after her and be like I think your beautiful and what not. I think about this over and over again to the point where I realize its too late. I then go back to the library on the same day same time hoping I'll get a 2nd chance... I never see her again


    Ok so why say all that ? :

    I have an education class, and on the first day I notice this very pretty girl walk into the class. We begin to joke around about common movies to the point where I'm like this girl is fun and I evenually go to lunch with her. We proceed to talk at lunch and I say: " well you were quite nice the first time i meet you in class." She respoinds... I meet you before that in the libaray and begins to tell the story that I said above verbatium. We keep talking for another 4 hrs about everything and anything. I start falling for this girl , everything is so perfect in the sense that I've never connected with someone like this before... too bad we were also talking about her boyfriend and how I'm like him and her combined...
    I walk her back to her apt and she hugs me and everything and we talk and continue to have lunch . I know that she know I think she's actractive...

    We get along so well right off the bat, but her 1st and only b/f she has ever had, have been dating for 3 years... I don't want to break them up because it seems that she likes/loves him and he loves her and treats her right... but I keep getting mixed signals from her , and I really really like her... what should I do
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    Feb 21, 2008, 08:12 PM
    She obviously likes talking to you but that doesn't mean she harbours the same feelings as you in a romantic way.
    Don't get involved as she has a BF so is off limits.
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    Feb 23, 2008, 02:46 PM
    Just be friends, and get to know her. She may have a sister that's cuter.

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