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    smileitonn Posts: 20, Reputation: 0
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    Feb 20, 2008, 10:37 PM
    Low self-esteem
    Helloo.. well what can I say. I'm frustrated with the way that I look. I want to be one of those girls who doesn't need makeup. My boyfriend still hasn't seen me without makeup and its been a year and a half.. but I think I look terrible because I have really small and thin eyelashes and my eyes are always puffy and weird.. so I have a couple of questions

    Is there any way to make your eyelashes grow faster/longer/thicker? Any of the three?

    And my eyes are always super puffy in the morning, what causes this? And how can I prevent it?

    Thank you for your input.. it'll make me feel a lot better aobut myself:)(L)
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    Feb 20, 2008, 11:37 PM
    Hey! No need to feel down about yourself.
    Everyday you have to wake up and point out the positives and remember
    Everyone looks different, its confidence that makes someone pretty !
    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, meaning, look how you feel comfortable because there are people who love the natural you =D

    As for eyelash's, no your stuck with the ones you have but hey, who cares right? Eyelashes are only there to collect dust, and I'm sure you look fine with them the way they are

    As for puffiness, you can try ice, or these special creams.

    Your boyfriend will accept you for who you are, not what you look like.
    ^.^ Even if you looked like a supermodel, it shouldn't matter to him because personality will win over looks.

    Love yer self =D
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    Feb 20, 2008, 11:44 PM
    You know, I dated a girl in high school (for 2 years) who... I NEVER saw without makeup. EVER. She even drew in her eyebrows... and I honestly was DYING to see her without makeup.

    I mean, I was with her for 2 years... so it was clear that I wasn't with her for JUST her looks... so by that time, I didn't care what she looked like. Sometimes, girls worry about things that they THINK guys care about... but in reality, we really don't.

    Many times, we just love you guys for you.
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    Feb 21, 2008, 08:10 PM
    Yes I guess you guys are right.. but I mean, its just a pain because I have to deal with myself and the same reaction every morning.. and it really sucks, I hate the way I look and just want some things to help make it easier and its always stressful waking up when I'm boyfriend is there.. so I just want everythign easier:(
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    Feb 21, 2008, 08:18 PM
    I'm sure you're beautiful. Try it one morning. You may be pleasantly surprised.
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    Feb 21, 2008, 08:20 PM
    I'll do that, thank you very much.(L)
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    Feb 21, 2008, 10:35 PM
    Yeah :)
    Get up out of bed, look in the mirror and just sa
    "Im fine the way I am!"
    Confidence grows eachday,

    I bet you are Bee-You-Tee-ful
    Never ever compare yourself to other girls, because like I said everyone has there own Bueaty =D your just hiding yours under make up.
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    Feb 22, 2008, 12:43 AM
    Ha. I tried using this stuff that was supposed to make your eye lashes thicker. It definitely didn't. I gave up and found a good mascara instead. Lol
    As for the puffy eyes, those cooling gel masks are great. Keep it in the fridge and put it on in the morning and you should be good to go.
    Don't worry about your boyfriend seeing you with makeup. He should be loving you for you, not what you put on your face. If he sees you without makeup and doesn't like you anymore he's not worth your time anyway.

    I'd love to be one of those girls that doesn't need make up either. But I'm not. So I've become one of those girls who makes her makeup look amazing! :) it's fun

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