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    leanne 9090 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 19, 2008, 02:36 PM
    Open relationship
    My boyfriend keeps on cheating on me is it because I'm ugly?:mad:
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    kp2171 Posts: 5,318, Reputation: 1612
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    Feb 19, 2008, 02:38 PM
    There are a lot of reasons a person cheats, most of which are their own shortfalls.

    We need more info.

    Please post more about your situation.
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    Feb 19, 2008, 02:41 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by leanne 9090
    my boyfriend keeps on cheating on me is it because im ugly?:mad:
    Forget the question of if you are ugly (cause odds are you are not). The real question you should ask yourself is if he keeps cheating on me then why is he STILL my boyfriend!!
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    Feb 19, 2008, 02:43 PM
    Hello leanne:

    I don't think so. Some of the best nooky I ever had was with an ugly girl. She was ugly, but she was sure sexy. Pretty girls just lay there. They think they're doing you a favor. Ugly girls really appreciate it, and let you know.

    excon
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    Feb 19, 2008, 02:58 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by leanne 9090
    my boyfriend keeps on cheating on me is it because im ugly?:mad:

    He keeps cheating on you because he is a jerk, it has nothing to do with your looks, don't let his selfishness make you insecure... And if you keep allowing him then it is no longer his fault but your own fault.. I know you must care for him but if he cared anything about you he would A. Be a man and break up with you before he decides to cheat, B. respect you enough think with the right head and not the one in between his legs... There is nothing wrong with you and don't start becoming insecure... Besides do you really want to be with a cheater?? Let it go...


    BTW my ex husband cheated on me, and I am a beautiful person inside and out, sometimes men just sleep with other women, who are more open to doing things their girlfriend probably would never do... EIther way there is no excuse! Forget about him...
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    Feb 19, 2008, 03:01 PM
    He keeps cheating because you let him. Dump his butt, and he can't cheat on you anymore. Ugly or not.
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    Feb 22, 2008, 12:52 AM
    I never once in my life doubted my looks or confidence UNTIL I was cheated on. I instantly thought I wasn't pretty enough. This sounds ridiculous but once someone has hurt you that bad the insecurity is HUGE. I understand that you would question this BUT I have to concur: you need to leave him the FIRST time he cheats.
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