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    xoxo143 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 17, 2008, 12:48 PM
    He doesn't put me first in bed.
    My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. He and I have a long distance relationship and we only see one another two to three times a year; because of his job. He and I have a great relationship, until it comes to the bedroom. I know he's satisfied, and he knows I'm not. Although he knows I'm not satisfied, he doesn't always try to fix it. It almost seems as though he doesn't care; or maybe he's embarrassed. I always end up angry, but should I be angry at him or angry at the fact that I'm not getting any pleasure. I don't know what to do?
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    Feb 17, 2008, 01:51 PM
    Let me refrase myself. My boyfriend and I have had good sex, it's just reciently that I haven't been able to get off.
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    Feb 17, 2008, 02:19 PM
    It happens. Talk to him about it don't make a big deal about it.

    Try and find out a way that works for you both.
    There could be lost of reason why you are not getting off
    Thinking too much not in the moment
    You don't see him that much that can be a problem as well
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    Feb 17, 2008, 09:05 PM
    Thanks for the advice. I did talk to him today, ant things are well.
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    Feb 17, 2008, 09:09 PM
    2-3 times a year?

    Ummm, not to change the subject but it is not impossible that he is having sex elsewhere

    Just wanted you to consider that as you put so much value on 2-3 times a year...

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