[madwifey]

I have a 8 yr old and I am 7 months pregnant. I have only been married since April 2007. I found out that my husband has been cheating on me for over 2 yrs. Also he slept with the person on the day of our wedding before we said any vows. For the past 5 months or so he has been in and out of the house staying where ever, and just recently got baker acted for going crazy and now this past Tuesday packed a bag left, he left our son with our neighbor while I was at work, left his phone and took off. He did not leave any note or any way to contact him. I tried to call the person he left with at least 4 times and left messages and have received no response to my calls. What can I legally do. I would like to change my doors on my house, and help protect my son and myself as much as possible. I do not trust him with anything. He had already told me that if I changed the locks on the door he would break it down. I live in Florida don't have a whole lot of money but need to figure this thing out. ASAP

[Fr_Chuck]

It is your home, while you can not "lock him out at this point" you can always change the locks with all intentions to give him a key "latter". Now if he breaks in, I doubt he is breaking any law at this point.

You need to file for custody of the child, and file for emergancy order of child support. ( not that he will most likely pay, but get it in writing)
Most likely you can not actually file for divorce while you are still pregnant ( each state is different many you have to wait till child is born)

[George_1950]

Sounds like divorce. Get a good lawyer, change your locks, go to court, get a restraining order, and did I already say it, change your locks. If he has ever physically abused you, go talk to a magistrate (and a lawyer) right away.