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Babygurl07_09 · Feb 12, 2008, 11:55 PM

All right I had sex about a week after my period and we used a condom but when he pulled out with the condom still on, I still felt his sperm. Is that normal? Well its been 2 almost 3 weeks since then and this past Sunday morning I had bled really pink but only once. Later on that day and the next 2 days I had a really light brown discharge when I wiped. Now it's a really clear but real slimy discharge and everything I smell makes me gag. Plus my jeans feel tighter, lower stomach cramps, and I am really tired. I called my obgyn and she said to wait a and do a test but do any of you think I could be pregnant? Im not even supposed to have my period for another 2-3 weeks. Like around the 24-28. I'm really scared because I'm only 16 almost 17. :(

Poliwog2400 · Feb 13, 2008, 12:09 AM

It sounds like you might be pregnant or fixing to start a very heavy period? Were you a virgin before this time you had sex?

Babygurl07_09 · Feb 13, 2008, 12:10 AM

Originally Posted by Poliwog2400

It sounds like you might either be pregnant or fixing to start a very heavy period? were you a virgin befor this time you had sex?

No but I just got off my period not to long ago and I've never done this before. =[

Hundalei · Feb 13, 2008, 12:21 AM

Originally Posted by Babygurl07_09

Alright I had sex about a week after my period and we used a condom but when he pulled out with the condom still on, i still felt his sperm. Is that normal? Well its been 2 almost 3 weeks since then and this past Sunday morning I had bled really pink but only once. Later on that day and the next 2 days I had a really light brown discharge when I wiped. Now it's a really clear but real slimy discharge and everything I smell makes me gag. Plus my jeans feel tighter, lower stomach cramps, and I am really tired. I called my obgyn and she said to wait a and do a test but do any of you think I could be pregnant? Im not even supposed to have my period for another 2-3 weeks. Like around the 24-28. I'm really scared because I'm only 16 almost 17. :(

Hi,

Just want to clear up some crucial info. If you had sex 1 week after your cycle and it's been 2-3 weeks should you not be expecting it next week, not 2-3 weeks. Just curious. More importantly try not to panic. Stress can make you think and feel things that may not be true. Best to wait and get a test when you can. Ask a pharmacist about early detection pregnancy tests. They can give results 4-7 days before most others. Remember that you are human, and you were trying to be responsible by using a condom. Nothing is ever 100%. Also try calling your local sexual health clinic. They can help with any questions as well as provide counselling about testing and your options IF you are pregnant, as well as birth control options for the future. Remember to try and stay calm until you have a definite answer. I know it's tough. Take it one day at a time and you'll be OK.

Babygurl07_09 · Feb 13, 2008, 12:54 PM

Originally Posted by Hundalei

Hi,

Just want to clear up some crucial info. If you had sex 1 week after your cycle and it's been 2-3 weeks should you not be expecting it next week, not 2-3 weeks. Just curious. More importantly try not to panic. Stress can make you think and feel things that may not be true. Best to wait and get a test when you can. Ask a pharmacist about early detection pregnancy tests. They can give results 4-7 days before most others. Remember that you are human, and you were trying to be responsible by using a condom. Nothing is ever 100%. Also try calling your local sexual health clinic. They can help with any questions as well as provide counselling about testing and your options IF you are pregnant, as well as birth control options for the future. Remember to try and stay calm until you have a definite answer. I know it's tough. Take it one day at a time and you'll be ok.

Yeah but the thing is, I have never done this before. Plus everything I smell makes me nauseated. My mom thinks I may be but it's a ify situation I suppose. My obgyn said is very possible but to wait. I won't get on birth control because I have ulcers and plus I usually have a normal period and that can mess them up.

Never-Again · Feb 13, 2008, 12:59 PM

Take a pregnancy test now

Babygurl07_09 · Feb 13, 2008, 01:00 PM

Originally Posted by Never-Again

Take a pregnancy test now

Do you think Im pregnant? My doc said to wait a week.

Never-Again · Feb 13, 2008, 01:09 PM

I would still wait and see I've had a late period up to 2 weeks before but still I would think of just taking one asap anyway like it won't do any harm at all to take one will it... but don't worry until you know for sure.. I know it's a pretty touchy topic but still why would you want to wait a week anyway

Babygurl07_09 · Feb 13, 2008, 01:13 PM

Originally Posted by Never-Again

I would still wait and see I've had a late period up to 2 weeks before but still I would think of just taking one asap anyways like it wont do any harm at all to take one will it ....but dont worry until you know for sure ..i know its a pretty touchy topic but still why would you want to wait a week anyways

Because Im too scared to take one. I have been reading stuff on implantation bleeding and that was exactly what I was having but I used protection. I hate this stuff. Im worrying myself too much.

Never-Again · Feb 13, 2008, 01:21 PM

Honestly your going to find out anyway so you might as well sooner because if you find out your pregnant you have more time to think about what your going to do about it and everything or you'll be relieved to find out that it's nothing , so just go do it.

stormey44 · Feb 13, 2008, 02:06 PM

I agree test now if it is negative wait until your period if you don't get it test again keep us updated

bifidus · Feb 13, 2008, 02:53 PM

It doesn't sound like you are pregnant, if you were having sex for the first time chances are you will have some bleeding your body is getting use to new experiences. As for feeling his sperm well sex can be kind of moist, it seems to me that you are analysing every aspect of your experience and convincing yourself that you are pregnant. I agree with Hundalei take a pregnancy test, I know you are scared to take the test but you are also sat at home typing like mad asking if we think you are pregnant. Calm down. Take a test there is no shame in it and that way you will know and either way you can get on with your life.

Babygurl07_09 · Feb 13, 2008, 03:17 PM

It was not my first time by far. I was 14 when I lost my virginity but now I'm having another sign.. My "nipples" are getting darker and Im soooo tired. I got like 10 hours of sleep last night but still feel like I could sleep so much more. I know I need to get a test done but I am going to wait a while just to make sure. Do you think I should even tell the guy yet or should I wait until I find out?

bifidus · Feb 13, 2008, 04:16 PM

Hmm not sure about the nipple thing but the tiredness I shouldn't wonder is down to worrying if you might be pregnant or not. Sometimes you just don't get good quality sleep, but that is by the by. I don't think you should tell the guy until you know for sure it could create extra complications and more stress, and it sounds like you don't need anymore of that! Don't worry, you will be fine. You're probably noticing things about your body that you wouldn't have given a second thought to if you weren't concerned about being pregnant or not. Seriously in a few months you'll probably be telling someone else not to panic about exactly the same situation you're finding yourself in now.

Never-Again · Feb 14, 2008, 12:13 PM

I still think there is no reason to wait, I understand your scared but still just go do it because if you are pregnant then you can either start eating healthy and all that to prepare for a baby or stop stressing yourself out about it because your not pregnant which would be good to know or even make an appointment to get rid of it type thing , it's just better to know what's going on and your going to wait for what to make sure lol like stop kidding yourself just get it done and over with. Because if you find out you are pregnant a million things will have to be thought of afterwards which will take a bit of time as well .

Babygurl07_09 · Feb 14, 2008, 12:20 PM

Originally Posted by Never-Again

I still think there is no reason to wait, I understand your scared but still just go do it because if you are pregnant then you can either start eating healthy and all that to prepare for a baby or stop stressing yourself out about it because your not pregnant which would be good to know or even make an appointment to get rid of it type thing , it's just better to know whats going on and your going to wait for what to make sure lol like stop kidding yourself just get it done and over with. Because if you find out you are pregnant a million things will have to be thought of afterwards which will take a bit of time as well .

Lets see... I WOULD NEVER GET AN ABORTION NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT IT! =] Im going to find soon as I go to the doctor Monday. I wanted to wait. Im not really stressing over it just scared a little. I already do eat healthy because I've been on a diet for a month or so.

Never-Again · Feb 14, 2008, 12:37 PM

OKay well good choice I just didn't want o make you feel terrible if that was your decision but I guess you should be fine if your going Monday then, Good luck though

Toxicshockk · Feb 14, 2008, 02:38 PM

I know exactly what your going through... mainly because... I was just in this situation VERY resently. I had MANY symptoms of pregnancy, but I ended up getting my period today!
So its still possible that you might not be. You haven't missed your period yet. Like me I was 14days late. And now.. BAM. Lol its here... for how long who knows.. but I can even still be pregnant so yes I agree with you hun.. it is very ify.

peggyhill · Feb 14, 2008, 03:45 PM

Hang in there, hon. I know it can be so scary when you are waiting to find out. Remember that your symptoms could be from stress or maybe PMS also. For right now, focus on trying to get through this next week. Make sure to drink plenty of water, eat well, try not to stress yourself out. (I know that is easier said than done!) I would say, if you are tired, sleep. Sometimes your body needs the extra rest, especially when you are worried. I hope you get the test results you want!