Make a list of the things you love and things that you don't. Compare them. I love so many things about my fiancé, I've been living with him for a year. I also really hate other stuff, it's more annoyance, but so many of us refer to it as hate. I don't like it when he burbs loudly, and other fuzzy stuff. But, if your boyfriend satisfies your most important needs, then talk to him about what you don't like or learn to respect his flaws, I'm sure you have flaws he doesn't like. It is normal to feel like that, according to my personal experience. My boyfriend satisfies my most important needs, love, loyalty, honesty, and respect. To me that is the most important and I try not to worry about the small stuff. Relationships have their ups and downs, sometimes influenced by outside factors like a stressful days, pms, etc...
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