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    Bluerose Posts: 1,521, Reputation: 310
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    #21

    Feb 3, 2008, 04:08 AM
    rusalka,

    All the advice above is very good advice (I just couldn’t decide who to rate). One more thing - there is no law, no one waiting to smite you down because you are an ‘adult virgin’ as someone above put it. I like ‘fake it till you make it’. You don’t need to broadcast the fact that you are still a virgin. Put off looking for a partner, work on making friends and the rest will follow.
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    #22

    Feb 3, 2008, 04:26 AM
    Thank you everyone, your words really help a lot, I really need to get changes going.
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    #23

    Feb 4, 2008, 12:03 PM
    I've never been with a virgin sexually but who ever you decide to give it to im'e sure they are going to love you for it.I prommise
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    #24

    Feb 4, 2008, 03:39 PM
    RELAX. It is great that you are a virgin and to be honest, somewhat irrelevant. I think that your relationship to your father etc. is a big situation, but not insurmountable. If you are attracted to intelligent types (as described by what you like to talk about) the go to the places where these men will be-for instance Don't go to the local bar-they are NOT there.

    Perhaps a swap-meet for computers, a reading club, a book club, the museum, the library.

    Nice people don't rate you on your ability to kiss, have sex, your virginity status is a bonus! As well.

    You need to love and respect yourself and stop with the "I only attract drunks etc. I am soooo nervous around the attractive men etc. tell yourself "I attract attactive men, I AM a beautiful woman who is desirable to all. Amny would kill to look as good as me, many would desire to be a pure virgin such as me" etc. etc. POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS!!
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    #25

    Feb 11, 2008, 05:17 PM
    I'm a female, still a virgin and I'm about to hit 31! :rolleyes: Don't worry about it, you'll be ready when you're ready! (And so will I! ) LOL!! :p
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    #26

    Feb 11, 2008, 08:52 PM
    "You should be very proud of yourself " and "Why would you feel stupid?" I agree with those comments. Just try to be more friendly with the guy you like and I think you will "WIN"
    Best of luck!
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    #27

    Feb 12, 2008, 06:11 AM
    Don't give it up until you feel its time... and not because some guy with raging hormones wants to add another notch to his belt. You can only have one first time. Don't waste it on a jerk.
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    #28

    Feb 12, 2008, 01:21 PM
    Thank you guys and girls :)

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