[surrender]

Hey there,
First of all thanks for listen to me... I'm a 27 yrs lesbian with 2 kids. I've been in 3 lesbian relationships in the 8 yrs I been a lesbian. One was for 4 yrs,other 1yr.. abut the one that have me really confused and hurting so bad inside. I been in for 1yr and 1month... we been apart for 7 months. The reason why we broke up. Was because she didn't trust me. And I did give her reason not to... I was still communicating with my ex of 4yrs. Who I still keep in contact with now.Who also live in TENN.To make a long story short. When my recent ex broke up. I didn't want the relationship to end. We were living together when she l left. I begged for her not to leave. But she did. We were still so seeing each other off and on. She was dating other people an so was I. She still meant a lot to me. I'm still in love with her. We just recently stop seeing each other about a 2 months ago. Reason she found someone she likes. Now she say they are in a relationship. Like I stated before I have 2 kids that loves her also. She recently been by my house to visit. Like once a week for about a month. So my question is. The last time she came by.I told her not to any more. Reason why I said that was because she have someone,and the same reason we broke is because of the ex issue. She have someone. So was I right? Even though I want her back in my life.She email me this pass weekend and said I was right and that she wouldn't contact me anymore. And she told her girlfriend that she been seeing me and she didn't have a issue with. So please help me what to do.

[Bluerose]

Yes, you were right. You could not be friends in that situation and it would have effected your children. This way, as hard as it may seem, you can move on with your life, meet someone else. Your children will be happy to see you happy again.

[talaniman]

Seems as if you have already handled things so now it about healing, so no more contact right?