[beth911]

You can't have me

For what reasons?

Someone else already does

[talaniman]

Wonder what he would do if you ignored his butt for a while? Think he would get mad?

[beth911]

Think he would be happy if I did.

[beth911]

Omg. So I read that and I don't know what to do... hurry. QUICK

[Wondergirl]

I thought you said you'd ignored him for a week.

[beth911]

I did. 8 days to be exact. Not 1 word. No e-mails. Nothing.
Until he called this weekend.

[beth911]

What if he forgot all about me and he's having sex with someone else right now?

[Wondergirl]

Obviously he didn't forget about you after you ignored him.

He has no transportation, so where would he have sex and how would he get there anyway? And who would want him?

[beth911]

Well, what if they have their license... and can I talk to you elseware?

[beth911]

I have an e-mail to read from him but I'm afraid to anymore

[beth911]

I'm going to read it I think. But I'm very afraid of what it will say and I don't really have anyone to talk to about this

[beth911]

It said:

I plan on buying a bus ticket to Maine. Any other stories you want to hear?


Remember what I said about him talking to a girl online? One that lives in Maine

[beth911]

What can I say?

[Wondergirl]

Tell him to have a great time and be sure to take warm clothes!

[beth911]

I don't think I really care much anymore about him. After what all he's put me through, it's so different. I mean I just wish I did care like I used to.
Do you think after this he may change, and I'll stilll love him?
Because right now, It's hard to love him after what all he's done to me and I just look at him differently now

[Clough]

I don't think I really care much anymore about him. After what all he's put me through, it's so different. I mean i just wish i did care like i used to.
do you think after this he may change, and I'll stilll love him?
Because right now, It's hard to love him after what all he's done to me and I just look at him differently now

Well, you could still love him. That doesn't mean that you have to like him. I have said it before, I have dated quite a number of people in the past. There are those with whom I am still in love. I am sure that there are some of them that still love me. But, for various reasons, we went our separate ways and found others with whom we fell in love.

It's okay for things to be that way. That's the way that life is for many people a lot of the times.

[beth911]

J e-mailed me:
Appearently you don't need an education for a lot of the jobs there. Its all in manufactoring. I was called down to the office today to fill out the forms for dropping out. This is my last week! Yay for me!! Well, I guess this is it, so see you!

He was called down to the office and was their for about an hour and 1/2.
Then he came to class and someone asked what he was there for and he said that he had to take some tests.
Wondergirl, I need your help. Also, what do you thinks going on with that whole mess?

[beth911]

J never e-mailed me back. Do I wait?

[Wondergirl]

No. Just be patient and watch how this plays out. Meanwhile, take care of yourself --get decent sleep and food, do your homework.

[loveme1]

I need alot of help with everything thats goin on. Theirs alot and its so long of a story that i dont even know where to begin. We have been together for almost 2 years. I wont say the whole story because its way too long but i will tell you bits and peices. Right now, he thinks i want his friend and i dont. so hes kida ignoring me. I only can talk to him at school and thats it. He wrote a note saying that he feels bad about leaving me but he doesnt wanna be hurt anymore. Their is nothing that anyone can say or do to get me to change my mind.... i already know that no matter what and even if i want to i will not give up on trying to keep us together. Even if I Want to give up on it i wont. I just need some help on trying to get him to understand that i really do love him and i dont want anyone else and i dont want him to be hurt but i wanna stay with him forever. I want him to know that I want things between us to be better than they ever were before and us to try to have fun together and get along better and not be misserable together because we both do love each other and we both dont like hurting each other and going throgh this but some how this is how it is............ i tried writing all this to him in a note but he said that one of his friends took it from him and that he never got it back. I told him to try to call me if he can and he said he would but he never did, then again he really isnt aloud to so maybe thats why..... I tried giving him another note and he said "i'l just lose it" so i ended up keeping it and he never read it. I told him to call me then and that was yesterday. So far he hasnt called. he said he would try though. And when i try to talk to him, he acts like he doesnt know me. I think that since he hasnt read that note he may still think that i want his friend and not him so he may be confused as to why i am talking to him. The day before yesterday, i told him in person that i want him and everything, then we kinda talked for like 10 seconds but then later i went back up to him and he just seemed mad again. This was right before we got out of school that day and then he just kinda walked away from me. The only time he talks to me is when i go up to him and he doesnt really say anything. But he sits next to me in 2 classes and in the 2nd one that we have together, he kept looking at me like he was trying to get my attention and then i kinda looked at him and then looked away and he just said "dont look at me like that"
But i dont know what to do.,. I mean from what i said, do you think if i wait, he will seee im not even talking to his friend and start to come back to me? Should i keep trying to talk or wait a little while before i say more to him? whats the best way to get him to come to me?
And he thinks i want his friend because of something that happened a few weeks ago.... He said he was talking to anoither girl and was going to leave me for her so i lied and said i wanted his friend and then he said he was just joking about her then he said it wasnt a lie and i dont know what to believe their becuase he makes things up sometimes to try to make me mad or see what i would do . but then i noticed him ignoring me so i told him that if he didnt want me to give to his friend because i was mad about eveything he told me about that other girl and when all thart was going on he said he didnt want me anymore so he was going to give to his friend. That all made me mad when i was only thinking about it so i said that to him but only becayse of everything he said to me.


I may have givin u somewhat the wrong idea or not enough info on this because its such along story but i tried to make it short.
but basiccaly i wanna know how i can get him to talk to me

Question to u honestly do u think he really love u