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bassinvader · Jan 4, 2008, 02:41 PM

Hello! I'm here cause I think I am falling for my best friend :S... Our friendship is really good... I can't even describe how great it is. The point is, I really LOVE my best friend just as a friend I mean, but recently I've been feeling really weird about her, I have a really hard time when it comes to sleep, I can be 3 hours thinking about her and what should I do. Last time I saw her I just felt there was a "kiss moment" but I refused to go on, I just turned away and kept talking with her.. I'm losing my mind here what should I do? I don't want to ruin our friendship cause if I lose her I would have a reaally really hard time without her... please help me! Thanks!:confused:

Kandibear · Jan 4, 2008, 03:50 PM

I say just tell her how you feel. If one of my guy friends liked me I would be okay with it.

colombianaj93 · Jan 4, 2008, 04:07 PM

Wow, well I think that u should make sure she likes u too, like if u make any move---it might be really akward

netsirk_b · Jan 4, 2008, 05:17 PM

I think u should tell her how u feel and ask her if she feels the same way and if she does u can go out other wise I suggest u ask her if u can stay good friends then.

raggablue · Jan 4, 2008, 06:57 PM

Originally Posted by bassinvader

Hello! I'm here cause I think I am falling for my best friend :S... Our friendship is really good... I can't even describe how great it is. The point is, I really LOVE my best friend just as a friend I mean, but recently I've been feeling really weird about her, I have a really hard time when it comes to sleep, I can be 3 hours thinking about her and what should I do. Last time I saw her I just felt there was a "kiss moment" but I refused to go on, I just turned away and kept talking with her..I'm losing my mind here what should I do? I don't want to ruin our friendship cause if I lose her I would have a reaally really hard time without her...please help me! thanks!:confused:

I know exactly how you feel, the last thing you want is to up what you've got, you don't want to tell her because it might make things too awkward, but if you keep your emotions bottled up it'll drive you insane. Its up to you but what I think I should have done is take her some where she feels safe, like her house, get her ful attention and tell her exactly how you feel. You never know she might feel the same.

bassinvader · Jan 4, 2008, 09:50 PM

Originally Posted by raggablue

i know exactly how you feel, the last thing you want is to up what you've got, you dont want to tell her coz it might make things too awkward, but if you keep your emotions bottled up it'll drive you insane. its up to you but what i think i should have done is take her some where she feels safe, like her house, get her ful attention andd tell her exactly how you feel. you never know she might feel the same.

Maybe that's what I have to do.. take her to a place that she loves. There's this park she loves, she says that it makes her relax, I think this can be the apropiate place to give her a clue of what I feel. Thank you very much raggablue!

raggablue · Jan 5, 2008, 11:55 AM

Originally Posted by Confusedpinkgurlie

If you dont want to ruin your guyz friendship..dont persue it...TRUST ME.. it'll ruin the friendship forever....i know from experience.

In some cases yes, but what's way more likely to mess things up is secretly being in love with your best friend and having to pretend that you don't lay awake at night thinking only of them and what could've been. Do you know jurassic 5? Listen to 'thin line' and you'll understand what can happen if you don't take your chances

bassinvader · Jan 14, 2008, 01:33 AM

Ok... I took her to this park, then we started talking and we had sex... without condom.. great.. we thought she wasn't pregnant but she is... I don't know what to do now, I can't be a father so tonight I'm going to commit suicide... Goddbye all, thanks for the help...

Fr_Chuck · Jan 16, 2008, 09:07 PM

IN ten days you dated and had sex, you can't tell she is pregnant that fast if she is.

And if she is, she is, you learn to deal with it. If you don't want to be a father you won't be the first to walk away and do nohting. Being a deadbeat dad is still better than being dead.

lolly13 · Jan 17, 2008, 03:31 PM

How old are you and what the hell did you sleep with your best friend for that was stupid you shoul always make sure you have a good strong long lastting relationship before screwing each other but well hay you all ready made that mistake so now all you have left to do is ask her if she wants the baby and if she does you will help her (you don't have to be a dad ) but you do need to help just as a friend will do. But if you walk out on her I'll hunt you down (look I'm a girl and I would hate it if my bf/best friend walked out on me while I was pregnant) she will need some 1 she can trust and relie on.

JerseyGuy · Jan 17, 2008, 10:32 PM

Yeah you can't kill yourself if you made the mistake in getting her pregnant because she will need someone to help her through everything.

pikachufannumber1 · Jan 26, 2008, 11:53 PM

Um... I think you should tell her but ask her that if it didn't work out if you two could still be friends... im srry if this doesn't help... I am in like the same situation except for I'm the girl and I am absolutely in LOVE with him... and he doesn't like me

But enough about my issues... I think you should just ask her if she likes you... and if she doesn't... then... with how great you say your freindship is either nothing will change, it'll possibly bring you closer, or you may have akward silences (but those'll get fixed, trust me).

katringette22 · Jan 27, 2008, 12:20 AM

Originally Posted by bassinvader

Hello! I'm here cause I think I am falling for my best friend :S... Our friendship is really good... I can't even describe how great it is. The point is, I really LOVE my best friend just as a friend I mean, but recently I've been feeling really weird about her, I have a really hard time when it comes to sleep, I can be 3 hours thinking about her and what should I do. Last time I saw her I just felt there was a "kiss moment" but I refused to go on, I just turned away and kept talking with her..I'm losing my mind here what should I do? I don't want to ruin our friendship cause if I lose her I would have a reaally really hard time without her...please help me! thanks!:confused:

I know how it feels I think the same thing is happening to me and its driving me inscane.

lovemybff · Dec 28, 2009, 10:21 PM

How man I was reading this because I have the same problem as this guy and I was actully getting into it until the whole dead thing so stupid anybody know if he is actully dead?