[MrChevvy57]

Hi eveyone, I just want to know if I'm being a Bastard or not. I've been seeing this stripper on and off for the past 3 years. Just recently she's been acting very strange towards me, anyway she was sacked from the club where she worked for some bull reason.
She started at a new place and I followed,but I still attended the other club as well. She knew and was cool about it and I've become very friendly with one of the girls there. We have so much in common and she more my age I also found out the girl I've been seeing is married with kids. Do'h.
She never told me and this hurt because I thought we were friends. Anyway I've sort of started seeing this other girl. My question is should I tell the first girl to step off or should I stick by her(married women aren't my thing).

Thanks for listening. :confused: MrChevvy57

[starfirefly]

Well if she's married and wasn't honest to you up front than I think yes she's not worth it she's lied to you why would you continue putting yourself through that, find someone who you can connect to and know that you're her only man

[friend4u178]

She's married... OFF LIMITS

[little firefly]

If she's married, stay away from her. That will only cause you a bunch of problems!

[kp2171]

Leave the married liar alone.

Who needs the drama?

So, no... you aren't a b@stard for being lied to. You might very well be one, but not for that reason.

[momincali]

How can you possibly date someone, even on and off, for 3 YEARS and NOT know they were married with kids?? How is that even possible? Were you never invited to her home? To call her there? To maybe a family function or something?? That just tells you that your relationship with her was purely physical. This was obviously okay with her since she never asked to take it to the next level. Despite the 3 years, there was no commitment there whatsoever and you were both okay with that. You can date 10 girls and it would be okay. When a girl expects to be taken seriously she will demand respect and usually, she will be given respect. Seems like you may very well be one of many and if she loses one, it's no big thing to her.

[qsandas]

You really need to be honest with both of these women. It will give you a chance to start fresh with a clean slate.
Don't be unfaithful, it's not worth it.

[Momma to three]

The first girl is married. She shouldn't have been dating you in the first place. Break it off with her, and make sure the second girl isn't married before you start spending too much time wth her.

[peggyhill]

Break it off with the married one. Be careful. She could be acting like she likes you just to get tips. But, if she really does, then that's cool. Just be sure you find out about her before you start dating. Make sure she's really single. If the first one gets mad, t hat's tough luck. She doesn't have a right to since she's married. No, you're not a bastard for not wanting to date a married chick.

[davedale1972]

So you're shagging two strippers. And the problem is what. Get it while it still works and you've got both your balls.