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    Jan 17, 2008, 03:51 AM
    What is normal sex behaviour?
    I'm afraid I'm trapped in an unhealthy sexual relationship. I don't want to influence people in anyway, but all I'm asking for is opinions on what people think is normal about sex.

    Basically, how many times per week, how long things should last, free house or whilst parents are in, dirty/kinky sex or love making, how long you should wait, sex positions etc

    Fair enough, I know the typical answer is EVERYONE is different, there's no right or wrong, but I'm just curious as to what people are interested in, what the consider their likes and dislikes and whether you are male or female.

    Ihope this doesn't seem too weird a question!
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    Jan 17, 2008, 05:13 AM
    Your answser is in the fact that you didn't get any responses to your post, and quite frankly, I am not about to enlighten you on this topic either. All is personal preference, so leave it at that.
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    Jan 17, 2008, 10:27 AM
    Tell us what's going on in your relationship and why you feel trapped. How old are you? Yes, all that stuff is personal preference but if you need help, ask.
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    Jan 17, 2008, 11:18 AM
    Well first it appears you are a teen, since you asked about "when parents are home" which means that there are issues just in that itself.

    In a married committed couple, they should be free to explore all areas of their feelings and sexual committement to each other. If they both feel good and OK with things, then it should be OK for them
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    Jan 17, 2008, 02:12 PM
    Partners who are like-minded about all the points you mentioned make for good sexual relationships. Nothing worse that a partner who likes sex once a month paired up with a person who likes sex once a day. What's the point? There will be nothing but friction in the entire relationship.

    I don't believe that hitting or degrading others is permissible in any sexual acts, it is against *my* ethics/morality. Otherwise, live, love, be creative. :)
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    Jan 17, 2008, 03:50 PM
    As far as Healthy, as long as you and your partner are being safe and not putting any pain towards each other, anything is open.
    When it gets to the point where you or your partner is hurting, saying no, or making you feel uncomfortable then it's time to reevaluate it.
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