Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    elena3117's Avatar
    elena3117 Posts: 26, Reputation: 6
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Jan 13, 2008, 06:25 PM
    How can I make him fall in love with me?
    Something is happening between me and him for 4 months now..
    Neither me nor him ever said something about being together or anything like this. I guess his problem is that he has a lot of reading (study medicine) and he might not have a lot of time for me but recently he tried to make a relationship with an other girl but it didn't work out.. I can't talk to him because I am afraid of the possible rejection.. How can I make him tell me to make a relationship??
    Wondergirl's Avatar
    Wondergirl Posts: 39,354, Reputation: 5431
    Jobs & Parenting Expert
    		  
    #2

    Jan 13, 2008, 06:30 PM
    You can't make him do anything.

    If you're afraid of rejection, the relationship is over.

    Walk away. Get busy with life.
    skyprincess's Avatar
    skyprincess Posts: 25, Reputation: 3
    New Member
    		  
    #3

    Jan 13, 2008, 07:32 PM
    Wondergirl pretty much summed it up in just a few words. You can't make anybody do anything.
    ISneezeFunny's Avatar
    ISneezeFunny Posts: 4,175, Reputation: 821
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #4

    Jan 13, 2008, 07:42 PM
    Wondergirl has novel t-shirt ideas.

    I understand where he is right now... relationship limbo. It may not be that he doesn't like you... it may be more that he enjoys your company, but also enjoys the freedom of not having to call you all the time or having to see you all the time.

    I suggest... take a chance. If you do, then at least you'll know.
    pyg's Avatar
    pyg Posts: 15, Reputation: 2
    New Member
    		  
    #5

    Jan 13, 2008, 08:27 PM
    I know it sucks to hear things like "you can't make anyone do anything", because you're thinking, deep inside, what if it was there, and all I needed to do was to make it happen? What if he was waiting for a sign? Why shouldn't I go fight for my happiness?

    Whatever it is, obsession (over him) is bad.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

How do you fall OUT of love? [ 6 Answers ]

What can you do to fall OUT of love with someone? I am so in love with someone who just "doesn't want a serious relationship right now." he says he likes me and thinks we could be in a relationship in the future, but he and his ex girlfriend broke up about a month ago (she had been in Europe all...

How can you make Your Man fall in love again like he used to? [ 10 Answers ]

How can you make Your Man fall in love again like he used to? I have been with him for years and he tell me he don't know what he wants but he wants us to try, I feel like how can you want to try if you don't know what you want! MY HEART IS BREAKING... CAN YOU HELP?:confused:

How do I fall in love again? [ 8 Answers ]

I was with a guy for almost two years and we were in love within two months. To me our relationship was great but he had a bunch of insicurities. As a result of this it causued us to have a hard horrible break up. He said and did things that I would have never thought he would have done to me. It...

How do I make my husband fall in love with me again [ 3 Answers ]

My husband and I have been together for 8 years. We've only been married going on 2 years, I'm 23 and he's 26. We also have a 2 1/2 year old boy. For the past a little over 2 years we have been addicted to drugs, mainly pain pills. Right now we are not living together but talk everyday and see each...

How to make to stop hair fall? [ 4 Answers ]

I got coloured for 2 times in just one month since the first colour I used is so strange that I can't go into public. Now the colour is convenient but I think my hair fall rate is very fast these days... :I :confused: I afraid I will become bald Since the middle of my head's where the hairs...

View more questions Search