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    Jan 10, 2008, 02:32 PM
    Porn is mainly gross, but erotica is completely different, art for arts sake.
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    Jan 10, 2008, 03:25 PM
    I would rather have sex with a real woman then with digital media any day. :D
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    Jan 11, 2008, 12:14 AM
    Porn IS erotica, you know.

    It's just not necessarily what YOU find attractive.

    I'll say what I've always said: Any woman that wants her man to give up porn completely has to give up love stories and romance novels. They are fantasies of love that are unrealistic, and porn is fantasies of sex that are unrealistic--both for the MOST part.

    And yeah--it IS about your self-esteem. If you don't like him hiding stuff and lying to you--then either confront him or leave. Seriously--relationships are about trust and communication. If you don't have both, and an understanding of what the other person wants--then you don't have much of a relationship, really.

    Again--moderation is the key here. NEEDING porn is an addiction. NEEDING alcohol is an addiction. WANTING either is a nice release, in moderation.
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    Jan 11, 2008, 07:18 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Synnen
    Porn IS erotica, you know.

    It's just not necessarily what YOU find attractive.

    I'll say what I've always said: Any woman that wants her man to give up porn completely has to give up love stories and romance novels. They are fantasies of love that are unrealistic, and porn is fantasies of sex that are unrealistic--both for the MOST part.

    And yeah--it IS about your self-esteem. If you don't like him hiding stuff and lying to you--then either confront him or leave. Seriously--relationships are about trust and communication. If you don't have both, and an understanding of what the other person wants--then you don't have much of a relationship, really.

    Again--moderation is the key here. NEEDING porn is an addiction. NEEDING alcohol is an addiction. WANTING either is a nice release, in moderation.
    Again... I find myself in complete agreement here. Can't say it any better.
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    Jan 11, 2008, 08:33 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Synnen
    NEEDING porn is an addiction. NEEDING alcohol is an addiction. WANTING either is a nice release, in moderation.
    Good point
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