[babybrown]

Hey there. My name is kiran and I'm new to this. I have a question some of you guyz might not think it's a question but I'd still like someone to help me with this. Me and my boyfriend broke up and month and half ago and he deiced we sud be friends . Which didn't really work out because he was too busy with work and school. Couple of nights ago I ended up the hosptal because I really gave up about this whole sitution. I'm understress so he felt bad for me and he saidd if you can get better by me coming backk he said he will come backk to me. So we;r not sort of kind of back 2gther knowing he just came back because he felt bad for me but at the same time he does care. I'm still really happy we'r back 2gther maybe it will work out. Hez not going to be home for a while 2night but I want to email him and be thankfull to come back to me. I'd like some ideas to say to him which will make him realize how much he means to mee:confused:

[crispy_chick]

Wow, I just want to say, I am happy for you and not to sound like a B**** but I really hope he loves you because otherwise he shouldn't take you back.
As for what you can do, Maybe cook him a nice meal or something, Do something from the heart, because when its from the heart its got meaning. And doing it yourself is nicer then buying it so try something along those lines... Please never harm yourself over a guy, or in fact anything else, its not worth it not one little bit... And I speak that very strongly..
PLEASE DO NOT SELF HARM EVER there are otherways to express that pain and life does get better...

[babybrown]

Thanks for you are opinion but I don't know why I feel this, I think he took me back because I was sick it seems like hez doing me a favor or forced to get back with no feelings. But at the same time I think he took me back because he feels my pain and still care about me...

[talaniman]

You should move on, and forget this relationship built on PITY. He will be gone, when you get better. The rest is he may care, but not enough to really stay as you get better so what are you going to do, stay in the hospital, to keep him? Let him go, and be healthy without him, please. You don't need to play drama queen to keep a man.

[bushg]

He sounds like he is a nice guy. Take comfort in the fact that he is a nice guy and don't take advantage of that.
But if he is just with you out of pity, it will never work.
It will only be slow torture for you. Don't settle for pity. You deserve to be loved for you, not out of a sense of guilt.I know this is not what you want to hear.

[JerseyGuy]

If the relationship ends between both of you then won't you have to go through all the problems and stress again of a break up? That's something you have to consider before taking it too far.

[mafiaangel180]

Tal said it best. The minute you are better, he will be gone. Seriously, leave this one alone.

[ISneezeFunny]

Let me guess... you guys are... in... middle school? High school?

[babybrown]

We're in high school.. thanks for you are answers guyz