[crispy_chick]

None that I can recall since before my first time I can only recall a bad experance 2yrs after my first time however like I said I was like this before that happened... Nor do I have any eating disorders that I know of...

[asking]

It is not normal. I have had bouts of nausea with an orgams a couple of times in my life, once when I was a teenager, again more recently, but I really was upset with the person I was with in the second case. I agree that you should get a regular checkup. You can sometimes see a nurse practitioner instead of a gynecologist and they are sometimes easier to talk to. If it makes it easier, write down your question and hand it to them. Just say, "This is really hard for me; I'm embarassed."

When the receptionist asks what the question is, you don't have to tell THEM. Just say it's personal. But do see a medical person and ask about it. I agree that the pain with intercourse and vomiting are not normal!

By the way, I think your extreme embarrassment about seeing a doctor about this may be a clue to your vomiting. Some people are just more self conscious or nervous than others and have different ways of expressing it and feeling it.

[crispy_chick]

Thanks asking, You make a good point about there been a possible link to the vommitting and embarresment to talk to a doctor about it...
I will ejoy the sex and all, and I won't think nothing negative during it, ill love the whole time envolved and all, but yeah no matter how nice and how relaxed the environment is its still the same, I still vommitt, so yeah I can't say its because I am upset or anything like that

[asking]

If it's just a habit you have developed, which isn't impossible, it's a very unusual one. I think most of us here are just concerned that there might be some physical thing causing the vomiting. I believe you that you are relaxed during intercourse. I didn't mean that you weren't.

[crispy_chick]

Yeah nah I understand that. Well I know I don't have any STDs or anything I mean like I am not been cocky But I have been tested several times after all I got 2 kids, And I have had other medical conditions that led me to been hospitalised and they run full STD tests both those times too, and I have had doctors do tests when I have had to go in for pap smears and stuff too. But yeah as for anything else I wouldn't know

[smoothy]

Perhaps you need to discuss this with your physician and find out what their recommendations are. There's a chance it's a psychological or if it's a physical thing they will have an answer. Its not normal and over time could have the same effects on your body as bulimia from the reflux.

[2personal]

I'm not an expert, the only thing I can think of, is when my girlfriend cums, her body tenses up, and sometime lets out a little wind from her back end, yes I find it funny as well, and maybe your tensing up so much that it is putting a lot of pressure on your stomach and causing you to be sick, seriously though you should go and see the doctor.

[crispy_chick]

Thanks guys for your comments... both are good things to think about thanks

[lacuran8626]

This can happen if you have endometriosis or ovarian cysts or other conditions like that which can be irritated with intercourse, and your doctor can rule these things out or confirm them pretty easily. Another possibility is that it could be an emotional reaction. You may find aspects of sex "gross" - I mean, that's the first reaction most kids have when they learn the birds and the bees is like, "really? That's so gross!" Maybe you haven't moved past that reaction yet for some reason. In any event, talk to your doctor. I'm sure it can be fixed for you.

[crispy_chick]

Thanks Guys,
Well I spoke to my foster mum about the whole pain side of things, Not the vommitting side of things though and well When I have done my move and I am a Little less stressed out and stuff she Is going to take me in to see a Doctor, As she knows where I am coming from about not been able to talk about it as she knows what my up bringing was like before they took me on...
But that won't be for a few weeks but yeah, I am in the process of packing and stuff so I will have to get back to you guys about it when I can but I won't have the next when I move so it might take a little while.
Thanks again guys

[douapuncte]

Maybe you thought that when did it the first time,it was something wrong and you somehow rejected the idea of feeling pleasure from such an abnormal act,and you still think that.And so you get sick because you still think that something isn't write.My girlfriend almost passed through that.Give it a second thought!

[crispy_chick]

Yeah true, worth looking into. I just want to end it, because I hate it