[arizona7]

My ex and I broke up again. He broke up with me once before but he asked me to go back 5 weeks later. We were in contact the whole time we broke up. We never changed anything we just starting going out again like nothing had happened. We just broke up again after 8 weeks back. I want to talk to him about this because I feel we started too fast and didn't talk about the problems in the first break up. We are still friends. I want to contact him to talk about this but I am not sure if I should. Help

[Charlie145o]

Well if you really love him you parable should but love doesn't always bring happiness. If you already broke and he has left you two times already what makes you think that he won't easily do it again. Give it some thought.

[Maggie83]

If its what you really want I say go for it, but first take a step back and think why you broke up and if its what you really want, if it is then when you speak to him you can talk things through in the right way and maybe work things out

[peggyhill]

Take some time and think about it first. If you still feel the same way, then talk to him. Explain to him that you have some unresolved issues about the breakup and that it will help you if you could talk to him. Hopefully, he will agree to talk about it. Good luck!

[lostsoul08]

U need 2 sit down and think why u broke up in the first place and say2 yourself is this really what you want.sometimes its not meant to be and you have 2 let it go there is no point if deep down in your heart you will just end up back where you are now

[talaniman]

I think you should think about this for a while, so you will be able to express yourself a lot clearer, instead of repeating the same mistakes over again.

[s_cianci]

I wouldn't. Stay away and let things cool off. Later on, you can decide if you want to get together and talk but my guess will be no.

[Coyotito1111]

Contact him! I mean, it can't hurt right? Just keep talking though, don't let everything get awkward! It shouldn't be bad! So sure, I think calling him, or contacting however would be great. :) I hope everything works out, and if you really like him a lot, and/or love him, everything should go smooth:)

[Maggie83]

Give it a go if its its what you want, if he's like most of the dumpees on here he will at least hear you out if he don't want you after that then you only have yourself to blame for ending it but at least you gave it a go!