[VET1984]

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. We have been moving a little faster than normal, I moved in with her, and we have some plans for the future. She has already told me that I am stuck with her forever. That is what I want. I want only her forever. I have told her three times that I love her, wanting some kind of response. All I get is a whole lot of nothing. She says I don't know when I ask her if she does love me. I mean, I don't get it, she can commit herself to me for forever but not say that she loves me. I do everything I can for her, I clean the place, do the dishes, get everything as good as I can while she is at work, so she doesn't have to worry about it. I just want an answer out of her about the whole love thing. I mean, it is still early I guess, but is there a way I can talk to her about letting me know something on her feelings?

[ISneezeFunny]

1. Doesn't matter what you do for her. You could buy her a bentley and a mansion... doesn't matter.

2. just because you may be the "best boyfriend in the world," doesn't mean you "deserve" anything. Yeah. I learned the hard way.

5 months is a bit early for the L word... granted, don't push it. If you keep pushing it, she may be pushed away.

[George_1950]

"is there a way I can talk to her about letting me know something on her feelings?"

Does she walk the walk?

[tomatokitten]

Are you kidding come to my place cook, clean be my servant, I'll even use the L word. Get out. Sounds like what is in your pants is in love not your heart. Next time remember Love is cultivated you don't drop a seed and get a beautiful bush overnight.