[nicolieolie5990]

Here I go again you might say, now after all these other problems that I have been running into with him. Now he thinks I'm crazy, because I don't approve of the that he does and how he treats me. He says I have no respect for him, well does expressing how I feel mean I'm disrepecting him ? What do you guys think because I'm clueless any more. I do everything I can and I am nice to a point to where I just can't take it any more. I had to get put on anti depressants since me and him has been together and yes sometimes I have the ability to walk away and other times I just want to make him feel as miserable as possible. Am I wrong for that ? Me having to go to work early in the morning, pregnant and asking him for us to leave and go home, would that be considered too much to ask. I think it shows he don't care but I want others opinions. Sometimes he makes me so mad and I keep ing with him but I do know when to quit. Would telling him about himself in front of his friends or at home in our bed room with his cousin down stairs classify as disrespect? He says that I have uncontroable rage, but I don't see it. With him he has a drinking problem, threatens to hit me, and says things that I hope he does not mean. What I want to know is what can I do to convince him that I'm not crazy and he is the one with the problem. Everyone else around us can see it but him. He thinks I make up lies but its all true. Desperate... need advice asap!

[talaniman]

I have read all your posts, and you or him needs to leave. You both have problems that need addressing, and since niether wants help, the only option I see is ending this relationship. Sorry.

[bushg]

He is an addict... he is in denial... he will never believe you... leave him alone and let him party... that is what he wants to do with his life.
You are going to push to far and he is going to knock your lights out... then what he kills your baby, is this what you want?
Don't you understand when you are going through this crap with him you are puttiing your baby in harms way... your taking antidepressants, probably crying all the time, getting your blood pressure up, not eating properly because you are upset or getting the proper amount of sleep. Don't you know that your baby/fetus is not going to thrive and grow under these conditions.
I believe that I have told you before to get in some domestic abuse groups, maybe learn about substance abuse. Get yourself some help... then just maybe you can help him someday.
Right now you need to learn to take care of yourself and that little helpless life that you are carrying.