[coolcourtney8]

My mum cheated in my dad. My dad kees on buying her flowers to prove that he loves her but she doesn't seem to buy him anything at all. I don't think she even loves him. I can't even look at my mum the same way I used to. Im only 12 and they might be getting a divorce. What do I do?

[loveyoupeople]

Oh sweetheart... I've been there.. my parent got a divorce when I was 10 and now I'm 21
You shouldn't be worrying about this.. they will sort things out for themselves.. your dad will be fine.. if they got a divorce or no.. He will be fine.. just needs time to get over a sensitive subject. And your mum will make her choice and she will be fine 2. and if they are not happy 2gther you wouldn't want them 2 stay 2gther. Honey please don't think about this.. they are adults and know what's right for them.

[talaniman]

Try to love them both whether they divorce or not. Just know its not your fault. These are their own problems and they must deal with it.

[mjl]

I also had the same thing as a kid. I was 10 my mom cheated on my dad for about a year and I knew about it. I was the one who ended up telling him because she wouldn't. Just wanted to tell you that, because it is sometimes easier knowing that you're not the only one.
If they split up it isn't your fault. It is their decision, and what ever they choose will work out for the best.

[Under_a_rock]

It makes me sad to know that you know so much about the situation, but you probably don't know everything. What your parents choose to do is between them. Whatever happens you should realize that you have no blame in it. Sometimes marriages don't work out, but that should not affect how you feel about your parents. I hope you can try to turn your focus on something else, but I know that will be hard. Try not to dwell on what is happening between them, there is nothing you can do to fix it. Good luck.