[Ireman]

We've been married for more than 10 years and have 3 children. My wife however can't seem to stop seeing, chatting, or phoning her ex. Its always the same. She does it. I catch on, and she, first denies it. Then doesn't remember. Then as I lay out my proof, she admits to only what she has to and never anything more than I have proof of. I am so, very tired of being the only one full time in this marriage. What should I do ?

[mjl]

Sit down with her and tell her this. Tell her exactly how you feel. Be honest and tell her that you want the same back. If you don't think this will work go to a marriage counsellor first by yourself and tell him/her what's going on and then on the 2nd app. Bring her along. She may be more inclined to talk more if she see's how serious you are about this.

[talaniman]

Has she ever told you why she does it?

[LettuceBFrank]

Maybe she doesn't understand that an affair doesn't have to be physical...

I think that the counseling suggestion is a good place to start.

If that doesn't work, you may want to consult with a lawyer.

I certainly appreciate the how complex your situation is given the fact that you have 3 children. Whatever happens, please remember to keep them first.

[JoeCanada76]

Counseling. Even if it is just for yourself at this time. They can help suggest and show you different ways to get through this situation. Best wishes for you and your family.