[windandfire]

:eeg: OK it's like this... I have friend that for no reason at all just stop talking to me... I have know idea what I did or f I did anything and she won't talk to me at all... when on msn she won't sigh on she won't answer her phone and she never answers the door like what the hell did I do... but I has been like this from day one what do you guys think?? The only time she comes up is when her husband is gone to work she think about everything too much when I talkt o her she is fine then the next day she dosen't talk to me for like a week... the last time she as mad at me about a joke.. I told her don't knock justwalk in then she like OK... I was happy that she di that.. so I mad a joke about it I said to her as a joke what ucan't knock... she stay the night then she went home.. and she was thinking for like a weel about what I said the her she said that that hurt her feeling... I'm like it was a joke... and she like it hurt me I'm like how it was a joke... then I was talking to another girl and then she got mad at me and wounldn't talk to me again... mani want to be her friend but gosh why do she have to think about every thing... she give me her email but she is never signed on she is always signed on as off linebut really she is on ine... I call and she never asnwer her phone like what the helll, then I will knock on the door and I know she is home she won't answer the door... most of the time she is mad over the dums is thing... like what how can I have friendship with some that only wants to come arounf when it is good for her and then every thing that I say the they so hard about it and then gets mad or upset... she was up here 2 weeks ago... and I have seen her.. thast was the last time I seen her... like what the hell is wrong... I want to know what I did to this girl but how do I do it... if she won't answer the door or the phone or email?? when she is ready to talk to me then she will I told her my feelings,and that I don't like what she dose but she still dose it... HELP HELP HELPME!! I love her like family but gosh... if I did something the she should just tell me... why hide from meeee?? I'm trying here I miss her don't know what to so she just really thinks too much about every think.. maybe she needs her space

[mrsjstevens]

First of all like totally calm down because I can like totally tell your upset because your like talking in some weird language or whatever. It's like so frickin' weird. Sorry... I just got a kick out of the way you write when your stressed. First of all. STOP!! Stop right where your at and take a biiiiiiig deep breath. Calm now? Okay now listen. There's only two things you can do. One.) stop talking to this girl. Two) okay so your interested in saving your friendship? Talk to her. Ask her what's up. And don't say like, totally, whatever, or any other teen word in here because it is going to turn it into a high school drama and if this girl is that important, you don't want that... right? If she isn't interested in saving the friendship, she won't talk back and then your only option is to revert to option number one. Now. On to the next problem... are you still in high school? If yes, promise me you will never write an essay that resembles this writing. Sorry sorry. I'm still laughing. Just please use punctuation marks in the future. I don't care about capitalization. It's just hard to read something when the spaces are in the wrong place as well as no capitalization. And smile. Life is not as serious as you think. Most people do not keep the friends they had in high school or college or even the first ten years of their grown up life in some situations. Life changes and so do the people in it. You have to face the fact that it might just be time to let this friend go.