[CarliCravis]

Okay, Me and my boyfriend have started to use condoms at the start of our relationship. (Before I started to date/to have sex with, him my periods were all on time I didn't get any sign of a pregnantcy test cause I never had sex.. ) Anyway, We used condoms for a while, about 2 months. This was all last year around this time.. ANd after 2 months or so we stopped using condoms, because it felt so much better and we wernt thinking. And one time on Newyears . The condom broke and gizzed in me a little bit and we didn't know it was broken. BUT I got the 'Morning After Pill' that coming morning, and I took them both on t he right times. And my periods started like a month after that, and they wernt on the expected day, but not far apart. And we used condoms once in a while. But he never gizzes in me NEVER! Because he ALWAYS tells me when he is going to finish. And he pulls out and jacks-off and finishes like 2 seconds later. But I got out of the way. And some times after sex we'd do it again JUST for like 2 seconds after he's all washed off and everything. And stop. But every time we get gizz on one of us and after sex. We both wash off and everything. Then go to bed. And, Right now after having protected sex. ANd never finished in me. I missed my period. And now I don't know when I'm going to get it , because its always off. AND now I don't have any idea. : ( And my broobs are sooo sore. And gettign bigger. And I always want to eat. Oh ! And when I got my periods all the time, like a week and a bit after I'm don emy period blood comes back, like some times a lot, some times not. And I was always perpared for it because it always happens every time. But I missed this one so I don't know if ill get it again.


Im 15.

Hes 16.

Please Answer my question, because I need SOME help (L)

[J_9]

First of all, it's called ejaculate or ejaculation.

Second, there is a very good chance you are pregnant because the withdrawal method is not to ever be considered a form of birth control. Men/boys have lubrication within the penis and it does contain sperm. He cannot control this from happening and it will happen even before he becomes aware that he is ready to ejaculate.

How late is your period?

[J_9]

Hey im the person about pissed period by far. and yes, iv missed a whole month, and i usually get my periods around the 20's. and ill just have to wait there

and im not on birth control

Carli, thanks for the private message, however, questions and answers need to stay in the public forum so that others can learn from your dilemma, or so that other well knowledged individuals can provide their answers in my absence. We have some very wonderfully educated people here.

Have you taken a pregnancy test? I would start by taking a pregnancy test using first morning urine. If it comes up negative, you should visit your doctor or clinic to get a prescription for birth control.

You are way too young to have a child, I am speaking medically, not mentally. There are many risks that are involved with teen pregnancy.

[J_9]

Sorry i dont know how to write on that so everyone can see it though : (


And no i hvant took any test yet.

I never got around to one yet : (

...Im scared?

See hun, scroll down below this post and there is a box that says Answer this Question, just type in there and click Post Quick Answer.

Now, I am sure you are scared honey. There is no method of birth control that is 100% effective aside from abstinence. However, you have to take a pregnancy test, there is nothing else that can be done until you take one.

[CarliCravis]

No I haven't took any Test or anything yet,

I never got around to it : (

[CarliCravis]

And I'm not on birthcontrol

[J_9]

There you go!! You figured it out!! YAY Carli!!

Now, you are going to have to take one. We can't tell you whether you are pregnant, there is no way to tell over the internet.

Your symptoms do indeed sound like pregnancy, but it could also be premenstrual symptoms as well.

[CarliCravis]

So I'll know for sure, if I get that test... whats it called?

And it says negative, that means I'm not !

And I go and get birth control

And is it true birth contol doesn't work the way its suppose to until 2 months on the pill, because that's when it 'apprently' is the right time to trust it.

[J_9]

You take the test, it's called a home pregnancy test, you can get it at any grocery store or pharmacy...

If it says negative, you probably aren't pregnant, but you'll have to get a blood test from the doctor to be sure.

If you aren't you go on birth control... There are many kinds that have to be taken many different ways, so pay attention to the doctor when he/she tells you how it is to be taken.

Most birth controls are effective one month after starting, therefore you will have to use a condom the first month.

Or, better yet, abstain from sex until you are ready to be a parent.

[alkalineangel]

Just in addition to J-9's already magnificent advice... if you go to planned parenthood, they can offer you a test and birth control as well as an exam by the doc in one place, and for a cheaper price without using your parents ins... just FYI... completely confidential there, and they can offer you resources.

[AngelEyes2885]

Ok, well I know you are more than likely scared.. pulling out is not going to stop you from getting pregnant.. it still works its way honey, I think you need to go and get a test.. like now.. I can't tell you for sure and if you aren't sure when your period is going to come neither can you.. get a test that comes with like 3 take one today and keep two for tomorrow. Don't freak out just yet. I hope it all works out for you.

[AngelEyes2885]

Oh.. and it's a bit early for getting hungry... maybe you just need some food.. as for the boobs getting sore... that's a definite sign.. you are 16 as well so them growing.. don't know for sure. I know mine were getting bigger and that's when I went and got my tests...