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    imisshim2007 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 7, 2007, 06:12 PM
    I want him back NOW!
    My ex boyfriend and I were together for a year an a half when we broke up the first time and we were apart for 6 months and got back together. Now we almost made it another year but then I went crazy and just lost my mind and snapped and he left me. A week later I find out that he left me but now he calls me more than he did when we were together he tells me he loves me more but every time I ask him to take me back he only says not right now but one day. I can't live without him I need him and its all my fault that he is gone.:confused: I want him back somebody please help me!
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    Dec 7, 2007, 06:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by imisshim2007
    My ex boyfriend and I were together for a year an a half when we broke up the first time and we were apart for 6 months and got back together. Now we almost made it another year but then I went crazy and just lost my mind and snapped and he left me. A week later I find out that he left me but now he calls me more than he did when we were together he tells me he loves me more but every time I ask him to take me back he only says not right now but one day. I can't live without him I need him and its all my fault that he is gone.:confused: I want him back somebody please help me!!
    It sounds like he wants to get back with you but wants to make sure you're not going to end up in the same place with each other. If he says it will happen, give him the benefit of the doubt and take a back seat... If it is meant to happen it will-soon enough.

    By pushing it, you could ruin your chance of reconciliation and that is the last thing you want--give him a minute and see how he wants to handle it.

    Good luck!
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    Dec 8, 2007, 12:52 AM
    Seems like you both like punishing each other. Right now you are being punished. If he isn't mature enough to discuss the issues and you are not mature enough to discuss the issues before you go nuts then break for good.
    It will never end until you hate each other.
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    Dec 8, 2007, 02:48 AM
    Sorry, but you do not need him. You need yourself to learn to be alone for a while and actually enjoy being single. If you do not and rush back into it, you will just be repeating the same old pattern, is that what you want? Miserable way to live you know.
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    Dec 8, 2007, 08:34 AM
    then I went crazy and just lost my mind and snapped and he left
    What was that all about? Have you solved that problem? That's enough to make anyone leery of you. I think you should stay single and work on your own issues, before you decide to get back with him.
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    Dec 8, 2007, 08:39 AM
    He's probably gun shy after you snapped at him and drove him away. And frankly I don't blame him. If you really want him back I think you're going to need to make a sincere, heartfelt apology about that incident. You also need to address the issues that led up to it, not where he's concerned but on your end of it. Do you have a habit of "snapping" at people and displaying emotional instability in general? If so then you need to address that as well.
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