[SweetLou]

Hi

I'd just like to find out if a girl would gain weight in the days after having sex? Even though she had sex before but hasn't been sexually active for a couple of months until now? Would it be a slight gain but enough to be noticeable? What signs are there to know if she has been sexually active, by means of body language and appearance in general?

[kirriky]

Yeah, normally a girl would gain a couple pounds after every sexual intercourse - visible on the morning after - so couples with an active sex life usually end up dying from obesity.

The answers are No, No, No, Acting happy and the skin glowing (that's what they usually say!), but technically, there's no way of knowing.

In any case, if you're not close enough for you to be able to ask her such things, you probably shouldn't be worrying about her sexual life at all.

[SweetLou]

No no no you're getting me all wrong here... I didn't ask if she would gain weight every time she has sex... Just asked in general now that she is sexually active again. And I am the one having sex with her so its not that I am snooping around in someone else's business!
Someone just commented on her physique and asked if we're having sex, so I wondered if it's a fact that she would show some signs... And I was just curious if there were any other ways of telling by looking at someone...

[Choux]

From the studies I have read regarding weight gain and sexually active people---

1. People tend to gain a little weight(men and women) after they are married.

2. Females have weight gain monthly depending on the time in their monthly cycle. This is water retention.

Other than that, I suppose if you eat lots of salty snacks after you have sex, you will have a water weight gain the next day. ;)

There is no way for others to tell if a woman had sex by looking at her the next day, or next few days! Sounds like someone is playing a mind game on you.

Best wishes in the future

[J_9]

Sex = exercise

exercise = weight loss

Sex also = pregnancy

Pregnancy = weight gain

So, the answer to your question is...

Yes and no

[SweetLou]

Thanks

[2personal]

I think what usually happens, is men and women work hard to make themselves more attractive to the opposite sex, one of those things is losing weight, and then when they have found someone they don't work so hard at it, hence they gain weight, I see it all the time, their with someone and they look like they have abit of weight, and when they split up, all you ever hear is, I'v lost this weight I'v lost that, my cloths are baggy I have to buy new cloths. I think you get picture.

[smoothy]

Only if she overeats... and no because if that was true all the really, really fat women would be having the most sex and that just isn't true on the average.