[yissy]

There is a guy who comes through my work almost everyday. I'm a manager at a convenience store for about a year. For quite sometime now, months. When he.comes in now we share this "look". It doesn't matter who else is around. Its so intense. We are still staring even as he leaves the parking lot. Only problem is it never goes beyond small talk. Welll at least not verbally. I don't understand why he's not made a move yet. This has been going on so long now. I know from asking around he isn't married. I've never had a problem being forward until now. I can't bring myself to make first move. What else can I do? Please help. I'm starting to feel like a little school girl

[oneguyinohio]

You could always give him your phone number on a piece of paper with the time you'll be home and tell him it is a reward for his 200th visit or something along those lines. Maybe just a reward for being a frequent shopper?? Tell him you'd like to talk more but never get a chance at work...

If you want to make it fun, have him pick one from 2 mystery envelopes in which you have written the note... of course your secret will be that you have put the same message in both envelopes. He doesn't have to know that and will feel very lucky to have picked the right one!

Not many other ideas I'm afraid. You aren't really making a move that way. He will have to decide if he calls or not, but you are just giving an invitation so he knows the path is clear.

Maybe I'll have to consider frequenting the local convenience stores some day in the future. You never know, my parents met when my mom was with one of her girl friends at a gas station where they stopped to put oil in their car. My dad stopped to see if he could help... and the talking turned into history for my family.

[talaniman]

Introduce yourself, and make sure he isn't married.