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dude23 · Dec 5, 2007, 09:51 PM

OK so my ex and I have been friends for a while now but I still really like her. Sometimes I think she likes me by the way she looks and talks to me but then other times she just acts like a friend. I really want to tell her how I feel but I'm afraid it will ruin the relationship.

brannan · Dec 5, 2007, 10:07 PM

Originally Posted by dude23

ok so my ex and I have been friends for a while now but i still really like her. Sometimes I think she likes me by the way she looks and talks to me but then other times she just acts like a friend. I really want to tell her how i feel but i'm afraid it will ruin the relationship.

U know what take a try do what your heart tells you to do

roundmonkeylover · Dec 6, 2007, 05:59 AM

Yeah these guys are right. No contact is the only way... she'll just see you as a friend and nothing more because that's what you're giving her. Women just like men are selfish, especially the survivors - the ones who want to stay friends with their exes.

Go away, meet new people, date with time, go to the gym and try new things. When you see her next you'll be in a better position to determine what she wants and want you want. If she's met someone else then so what if you done the proceeding then you don't need her anyway.

This comes after months of experience... asked this same question on here 7 months ago but stubbornly decided to stay friends. At first the chemistry was still there but it becomes a battle of wills until she just get tired of you and moves on.

She actually said to me I'd rather us not be friends now if seven or eight months we can be friends. With hindsight, a mutual friend had a party recently (the same place as where we got together)... seven months on it might have happenend for us.

BE STRONG, LIVE FOR YOU

Miss Sparkle · Dec 6, 2007, 06:05 AM

If you love this girl tell her how you feel, life is far too short to waste. If she feels the same way, then great, if not then at least you tried.

talaniman · Dec 6, 2007, 08:16 AM

Leave her alone, and get your own life. She has no intentions of getting back in an exclusive relationship with you, and why should she, when your always there anyway. She can have you with no work at all. Go about your own business, and why keep making posts about the same thing? All it takes is you accepting this thing is over, and stop taking her crumbs, because she gives you false hope.